turning down girls for sex

[Bulgakov]

feels like a breakthrough weekend...

i turned down two girls for sex - one on friday, one on saturday - because i have another girl staying at my place for the week. both girls are hot and can have their pick of guys.

one i gave her a free entry to a nightclub she likes without even bothering to meet her there. i told her to 'try and have fun without me'. she simply texted me 'sex?' at 12.26am lol. i wrote back 'can't tonight babe. hit me up next time...' i barely know this girl.

i have two other girls in the pipeline and one other that i could date but she's not as hot - very cute face, african-american girl in australia, cool personality, just not under 55kg which is about my threshold now.

it's a very good feeling to know i have girls chasing me. the biggest problem is finding time and motivation. i have been managing one new girl per month since october 2011 while only going out once per week. this doesn't seem difficult to keep up anymore, even with high standards.

anyway, what's the next step in the game? am i supposed to become more relationship minded or continue to rack up numbers and see how things pan out? i feel as if i'm headed towards the latter. i'm 23.

[Matt II]

Do what makes you happy mate. You´re in a good position women-wise and nobody can answer how you should go head but youreself. If you havn´t grown old of racking up the numbers, maybe do that until you find it boring or until you find a cool girl that you connect effortlessly with. The one doesn´t preclude the other IMO as you can meet cool women through hooking up (duh!).

[Mark]

There's no "next step." This isn't a video game. Just because you "accomplish" one goal with women doesn't mean there are more and harder ones out there. That's a bad mentality that I was stuck in for many years.

Like Matt said, do what makes you happy. If you are up for more fun and just want to rack up numbers, go for it. You're young and don't have a care in the world. If you get tired of it and are feeling a bit down or lonely, or you meet one girl who is particularly amazing, then challenge yourself to slow down and really connect with her in a serious relationship.

Do what feels right for you.

[Paul]

I think this is what people call a good problem.