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So I realise I haven't posted here in a while. So I figured I might as well share my recent experiences.

A couple weeks back I met this girl at a bar, the conversation I had with her was really great. I felt as though we connected, I told her stories about my private life and she did the same. I grabbed her number and organised a date with her a couple days later. Unfortunately the date went horribly wrong. As I arrived to meet up with her I saw her leave with another guy. I felt down for a couple days after this but I picked myself up and decided to go out with friends. But the night went horribly wrong also as I faced rejection from quite a few girls. Now I've never actually struggled getting girls so when this happened I didn't know how to take it. Like rejection from 4 girls is normal to me on a night out but I've never actually hit double digits with the rejection I've faced.So this string of bad luck is kind of new and hopefully its only a 'pain period' which will serve to make me stronger
02-13-2012 08:03 PM
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luda Wrote:So I realise I haven't posted here in a while. So I figured I might as well share my recent experiences.

A couple weeks back I met this girl at a bar, the conversation I had with her was really great. I felt as though we connected, I told her stories about my private life and she did the same. I grabbed her number and organised a date with her a couple days later. Unfortunately the date went horribly wrong. As I arrived to meet up with her I saw her leave with another guy. I felt down for a couple days after this but I picked myself up and decided to go out with friends. But the night went horribly wrong also as I faced rejection from quite a few girls. Now I've never actually struggled getting girls so when this happened I didn't know how to take it. Like rejection from 4 girls is normal to me on a night out but I've never actually hit double digits with the rejection I've faced.So this string of bad luck is kind of new and hopefully its only a 'pain period' which will serve to make me stronger

I mean it just sounds like a run of bad luck, which happens to the best of us. I would console yourself to the fact that, with the girl date girl, that's just really really poor behavior on her part. Who agrees to a date and leaves with another guy when it's about to begin? That's ridiculous behavior. And getting "blown out" is just part of a process - they didn't really get to know you.
02-13-2012 10:04 PM
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The behavior of the date girl is downright ridiculous. You don't want her in your life anyway.
02-13-2012 10:25 PM
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Yeah... it sucks. But we all go through rough periods. And yeah, it doesn't feel like it right now, but that girl did you a favor by leaving early... that's not a girl you want to spend time with.
02-13-2012 10:29 PM
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