my attitude

[gautam maheshwari]

i am a kind of guy who can easily approach any girl... i don't have any AA... i am able to create a initial attraction also... but i end up losing the girl... many friend has told me that my problem is i get emotional for the girl pretty early and she comes to know about this due to which she starts using me and in the end i loose her... according to you guys what should i do... if i m a emotional kind of person how can i change myself???

[Jani]

Does your emotional behavior transform in needy actions, like suffocating her, jealousy??

[middleway]

(06-15-2012 08:09 PM)gautam maheshwari Wrote:  my problem is i get emotional for the girl pretty early and she comes to know about this due to which she starts using me and in the end i loose her...

Seems like you know the problem.

The solution is:

Set boundaries. Make your expectations clear, both to yourself and to the girl.

This is hard to do if you are a very emotional persons.

I know people on this site are against it, but I think the whole 'fake alpha' thing with becoming less emotional about girls is a necessary part of the process (although in the end what Mark is advocating is much healthier).

[Ashwin]

My Attitude is my life ... i am frenkly person ... i like my speech ..
i am since and honest to hard work ...
Always keep attitude ...

thanks