dropping a girl at the first sign of rejection advice

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So this weekend I met two different girls. The first girl was at my place for a pregame. When I talked to her I thought we immediately clicked and I proceeded to get her number. So that night I added her on facebook and the next day I invited her to pregame and go to a game with me. She had a valid reason not to go with me she had something she had to do with her sorority, however it took her like 2 days to respond to my friend request. From that I took it that she wasn't that interested in me so I'm thinking about not texting her. Do you guys think I'm reading too much into this?

The second girl I met was literally right before I left the bar. She was chilling by herself and I saw it as an opening to talk to her. Once again I was flirting and it seemed like it was going well so I asked for her number. Not going to lie I forgot what her name was so I pulled the move where I make the girl fill in all of her info in my phone. However right before she gave me back my phone she was like "do you remember my name?" and I was like" no but I think your a really cool person" and I left it at that. Then 5 mins later because I realized that I didn't give her my number I texted her but she never texted back but she did add me on facebook. However I'm taking her not responding to my text as not interested. Am I i reading too much into this too, because I swear I do this type of thing all the time where I drop a girl at the first sight of possible rejection.

[Trickster]

Spikes Wrote:So this weekend I met two different girls. The first girl was at my place for a pregame. When I talked to her I thought we immediately clicked and I proceeded to get her number. So that night I added her on facebook and the next day I invited her to pregame and go to a game with me. She had a valid reason not to go with me she had something she had to do with her sorority, however it took her like 2 days to respond to my friend request. From that I took it that she wasn't that interested in me so I'm thinking about not texting her. Do you guys think I'm reading too much into this?

The second girl I met was literally right before I left the bar. She was chilling by herself and I saw it as an opening to talk to her. Once again I was flirting and it seemed like it was going well so I asked for her number. Not going to lie I forgot what her name was so I pulled the move where I make the girl fill in all of her info in my phone. However right before she gave me back my phone she was like "do you remember my name?" and I was like" no but I think your a really cool person" and I left it at that. Then 5 mins later because I realized that I didn't give her my number I texted her but she never texted back but she did add me on facebook. However I'm taking her not responding to my text as not interested. Am I i reading too much into this too, because I swear I do this type of thing all the time where I drop a girl at the first sight of possible rejection.

1) Yes. People are varying degrees of active on facebook. Until she actually blows you off for a date, you haven't seen this through yet.

2) She added you on facebook. Ask her out and see what happens.

I am/was this way too - the instant I see any sign of possible flaking/rejection, I do the job for them and just don't bother. Don't be that way. I realized that for me, it was because I didn't want to experience rejection so me sorta forgetting it at least put that power in my hands. In the end, it's functionally equivalent as rejection though. I'm forcing myself to see every interaction through to the end. You should do the same.

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Thanks Trickster! I see that I'm doing the same thing you were talking about and from now on I'm definitely going to see all these interactions through.