Young Girls

[BudCrow]

Last night I met an incredibly hot 18 year old. She gave me her number and said call it in an hour. This was after revealing that I am 33. She did the maths that I could be her dad.

Anyway, she was suposed to meet me in an hour. It never happend. There was very strong attraction between us.

I got ID'd, I probably look mid twenties realistically and I can't lie, I prefer younger 18-22 year old girls.

Is it wrong to say I'm 24 next time-thus not being old enough to be her dad?

I know it's lying, but I have a feeling I would have got some if I did...

[Alvar]

Quote:Last night I met an incredibly hot 18 year old. She gave me her number and said call it in an hour. This was after revealing that I am 33. She did the maths that I could be her dad.

I always tease them with that: "I could be your dad" or "lol, you're closer to my eldest." I'm 35.

Young girls can be very fickle, you shouldn't take what they say at face value.


The question for you is, what do you really want?
Do you want short term success, cut corners to some easy lays? You may get some...


Or do you want to grow as a men and develop your confidence and attractiveness? Because if it is the latter you must be honest. You won't just be lying to the girls. You'll be telling yourself that you are unable to get young girls as a 33 yo, that who you are is not enough and that you must make up stories in order to cover it.
I know it can be painful. You must disclose something that will disqualify you. But if that is important for her, shouldn't she have the right to know?
The paradox is that the more willing you are to accept it, the less it will matter.

[Mountainman]

(08-11-2012 11:06 AM)BudCrow Wrote:  I know it's lying, but I have a feeling I would have got some if I did...

I think you would probably get a lot more if you just told them your true age. If you really look like you're in your 20's then being 33 should be even more of a turn on for her, she's getting a young looking guy with lots of experience.

[BudCrow]

@Alvar I just want to be able to have sex with random girls once a month.

I'm very busy even in my free time, I have kids and my own business, so a relationship is out of the question. I get allot of cuddles and love from my kids.

I don't have allot of time/money at the moment so I just want a link, I've never had one. What I would like is several fuck buddies. I had the potential to get that going, but until I stopped porn I was slapping them in the face and stuff cause I though it was the norm.

[Thor]

I find that some girls are extremely open to dating guys alot older then them. There are others who would run a mile. I am 46 years old and tend to date girls in the 25-30 year range.

[Alvar]

I've never found my age to be much of a problem - except when I go to venues where everybody seems to be between 18 and 24. I feel awkward and uncomfortable. When I meet young girls in places where patrons are older, then I have no problem.

My problem is with kids. At first I was scared of telling girls that I have kids. Then I started using it to screen girls for ONS. I'm usually pretty forward with my advances and if I dropped the news after 10 minutes of conversation it made it easier to polarize. If they just wanted a bf they'd excuse themselves. It worked great last year.
Recently I started dropping it really quickly, in some cases. I was surprised at my decision but then I noticed that I was following my instinct; I probably noticed that the girl was on the hunt for a bf and "donor" and just dropped the bomb.

I would like to tell you that I'm quite proud for listening to my gut, but in truth, this is bloody painful. Last week, a tall girl told me that she didn't want to have any more of my babies, after she had placed herself in front of me. Ouch. Yesterday, a gorgeous 25 yo approached me and was all into me until I delivered the news, at which point she went away. She was then approached by some ridiculous douche, and even though she was still into me, she ignored me for the rest of the night. It sucks. I'm still getting over this second one, even if later on I literally had pussy thrown at me
But those two girls where never meant for me, and being forthright saved me and them lots of time and effort. Not to mention that facing my fears is helping me grow and become the man I want to be.

I don't think I have the moral to tell you what to do, but maybe I can help you make an educated decision.

[BudCrow]

I think it's potentially a mistake to tell woman about kids. One time I had this girl in the cab on the way back to mine. Told her about kids and she pretty much bailed asap!

[Alvar]

BudCrow, I had posted by accident while editing. I added a couple of paragraphs.

Just to add, I am a foreigner and I'm usually asked why I live here, so there would not be much wriggling room for me. Girls that I end up dating aren't usually too concerned about my family situation, sometimes I am the one who brings that forward.
I'm also lucky that I live in northern Europe, where divorce is socially acceptable and girls are more forthcoming then, say, in southern Europe.