"Women at my country suck!"

[Jean DeCuir]

I'm located in a southern Europe country near Spain (Portugal). I want to ask you people if you think the women at your country suck when it comes to dating.

A lot of guys here at home, mostly from the seduction community, tend to say that women here are arrogant, they suck and they act like they are "daddy girls" even tho "they are all, secretly, whores" and the reason why they reject guys is to be "high status" and look cool in front of their friends.
You get the point.

I personally think this is a LOAD OF CRAP. You can't blame a person for doing what she thinks is right for her, rejection makes part of the game and whoever says otherwise is lying. You just have to be prepared to take a lot of shit from a lot of people. Arrogance from women only affects them because they let it and honestly i don't think women have a mean nature at all like these guys tend to describe.

So what do you think? Whether you are located on the USA or on the North Pole... lol... what do you think about the women at your country? Do they suck? Why?

[Tim]

I think it's good you don't share this attitude, and have the open-mindedness to stand up against that common opinion.

But I don't think having this conversation would be of much use. I don't believe any country's women 'suck'.

From http://postmasculine.com/you-are-not-a-victim:

Some of my favorite comments, emails or forum posts that I see regularly go like this: “I go out and try to meet girls, but the problem is all of the girls in my town are catty and immature. So I guess I just need to move to a new city.”

Really? So, it’s not you who’s screwed up, it’s the 140,000+ single women in your city who are ALL screwed up. That’s a totally reasonable observation.

Or you get guys who claim that ALL — not some, not most, but ALL — American women are fickle and too individualistic. Or that ALL Western women are immoral and cheaters and would never make a good girlfriend.

Guys making negative assumptions and stereotypes about MILLIONS of women for no other reason than to shirk accepting responsibility for their own short-comings. This appears to me to be nothing short of a victim-mentality and it pervades a lot of guys’ thinking, some in more obvious ways than others.

This doesn’t necessarily mean the general observations are wrong, it just means you’re interpreting them in such a way to victimize yourself. Sure, American women may be more fickle and pretentious than their European counterparts (then again, they may not be). Women in your town might actually be more closed off than women in a bigger city (or they might not). But you’re choosing to let those observations be responsible for your results, because it’s easier to feel like the victim, to feel like that fucked up and cruel world is short-changing you, rather than admit you just suck at something and nobody else seems to care.

[Mark]

Some people suck. Some people are cool. Doesn't really matter which country you're in.

[Thor]

The way I look at it is if a woman is being bitchy she is being straight with me as to how she feels. If she doesnt like me thats cool no need to waste anymore time with her.

Rather then channeling energy into telling people how bitchy some women are I think its better to find out what attracts you to other people? once you have figured that out next learn how to cultivate it into yourself.

[Alvar]

Portuguesas do suck...
Very well, I recall