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What does it feel like to have solid game?
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What does it feel like to have solid game?
I think I'm starting to have an understanding of how continually approaching fucking up and then gradually learning from your mistakes gives you solid game. for example I used to have alot of approach anxiety a few weeks ago. now when I see a girl I find attractive I will start walking towards her and not think about what I'm going to say because I saw the same thing over and over again "I think your cute" sometimes Ill change the approach based on the situation but for the most part its without thinking. I'm slowly starting to get to this point with cold reading and now I'm moving on to having a stable conversation with girls and being comfortable with this. what I am wondering is with guys with solid game does everything I just described, similar to having solid game but instead of not having to think about the approach do you not have to think about the conversation, touching and other aspects of game is it all just instinctual at that point because you learned everything from trial and error?

in other words does it feel like you're more in control and the whole interaction isn't an act of god if it goes well or bad?

Grant me the serenity to accept that some women are uninterested,
Courage to change the ones that are neutral,
And wisdom to know the difference.
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07-27-2012 06:10 AM
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RE: What does it feel like to have solid game?
I don't think I have "solid game", what I know is I don't feel I have "control" of the whole interaction and I don't think you should pursue to control it. I'm just more comfortable that I was handling wherever the conversation or the interaction is going, be it good or bad.
07-28-2012 07:29 PM
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RE: What does it feel like to have solid game?
I see. So you feel more comfortable in the approach regardless of where it goes. Do you feel more confident that you can convert neutral girls to be attracted to u too?

Grant me the serenity to accept that some women are uninterested,
Courage to change the ones that are neutral,
And wisdom to know the difference.
07-29-2012 01:34 PM
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