Virgin tried to give me a blow job

[Thor]

Whilst out and about near the river thames here in London. I headed to a bar near the river. The bar was more of a place where people meet before heading to the theatre which was in another part of the building.

As I walked in through the main entrance I noticed a girl in her mid twenties dressed in a short skirt and heels. The sight of the way she was dressed got be horny as fuck. She was sat there reading some magazine.

I walked upto to her and said "Please tellme your not reading that crappy hello magazine" and I laughed out loud. I actually found this comment very amusing . She turned and looked at me. I sat down next to her. "Oww its a furniture magazine so I guessing your planning on buying some new furniture then ?" she replied that she was considering a career in design and had a geniune interest in the subject.

I asked her what her degree was in and she told me logistics. I told her alittle about my time at university and how at a such a young age we never really know what we want. She agreed and told how she never really knew what we wanted to study but applied for what her friends had applied for at university.

It turned out she was from Riga in Latvia. I told her about my crazy times in Latvia many many years ago.

I asked her lets go for a walk along the river. She agreed and we went out for walk along the river. She didnt say alot it was like she gave me that gaze she was into me but alittle shy too. I turned to her and said "do you realize I am nearly 46 years old you are half my age" she said that men in their 40s were alot more masculine then younger guys and she told me how she worked as an au pair for a married couple who had children. The husband was 44 years old and she found him ridiculously handsome. She even toldme she had fantasised about him.

After a couple of hours of chatting. We eventually exchanged numbers and I called her next day. She picked up the phone right away I invited her for a drink by the river again on the weekend. She agreed..

We metup and began chatting. She seemed alot more open I then pulled her in and began kissing her on the lips. She began making out with me really aggressively which I didnt like. I put it down to maybe she was nervous or something. I sat down on the bench and she sat down on my knee and then whilst we were talking she stuck her ass right between my legs. Oh shit I almost came ! and had to move her back onto my knee.

Not sure what happened next but one thing let to another. I took her hand and led her to the a public room near the theatre where woman take their babies to change their nappies. I led her into the room and locked the door. Turned her round and began grinding her ass. It was fucking amazing grinding her as she was wearing her short skirt again !.

I was feeling so horny I grabbed her hair turned her round and said "fuck me" she said she couldnt. I then said suck my cock.

I dropped my trousers and pants and she began trying to suck my cock without pulling the foreskin back. Unfortunately the experience was not pleasant my hardon turned to jelly .

I told her to stop. I pulled up my pants and gave her a hug saying its ok. We sat down over a drink and then she told me she had never had sex before. I told her its ok no problem we can take our time getting to know each other. We continued to chat.

Things got alittle dark as the conversation continued. She told me how she had tried to commit suicide when she was 19 years old.

At that point I decided I didnt want anything else to do with this girl. I've got my own issues to deal with I dont want to have to take on someone elses issues at this point in my life.

At the end of the evening I wished her well and we departed. She still sends me texts asking me how I am.

Really dont think its a good idea to get involved with a girl like this.

[baller08]

A man with little to no options will say to himself, "I can rescue her, show her that I'm a good man and be her white knight". That man will get destroyed and go on a forum and say, "I don't understand, I gave her everything and this is what she did to me!"

A man with some options will say to himself what Thor did.

Thor - it's been a privilege to watch you improve. You've got the right mindset, now you just need more experience and you're on your way to getting it.

Remember that there will always be bumps in every stage you enter....just like there were bumps in the approaching stage. Just keep the attitude and perserverance that you have now and you'll be everything you've always hoped.

PS: Now you know why I told you age isn't an issue if you don't make it one. <---- an example of how knowledge in itself isn't enough, but experience coupled with knowledge is what really makes it an actual belief.

[Drewid]

(05-31-2012 08:04 PM)baller08 Wrote:  PS: Now you know why I told you age isn't an issue if you don't make it one. <---- an example of how knowledge in itself isn't enough, but experience coupled with knowledge is what really makes it an actual belief.

One thing I'll say about this is that younger girls are attracted to the "experience" of older men.

[Thor]

Your right mate. One thing I have noticed is that the more mature a young girl is the more she is open to dating older men.

(05-31-2012 08:04 PM)baller08 Wrote:  A man with little to no options will say to himself, "I can rescue her, show her that I'm a good man and be her white knight". That man will get destroyed and go on a forum and say, "I don't understand, I gave her everything and this is what she did to me!"

A man with some options will say to himself what Thor did.

Thor - it's been a privilege to watch you improve. You've got the right mindset, now you just need more experience and you're on your way to getting it.

Remember that there will always be bumps in every stage you enter....just like there were bumps in the approaching stage. Just keep the attitude and perserverance that you have now and you'll be everything you've always hoped.

PS: Now you know why I told you age isn't an issue if you don't make it one. <---- an example of how knowledge in itself isn't enough, but experience coupled with knowledge is what really makes it an actual belief.

[Halo Effect]

I've gotten involved with a girl like that. Amazing though she might be underneath the hurt, dating her inevitably led to drama or sadness of some sort.

Quote:I dropped my trousers and pants and she began trying to suck my cock without pulling the foreskin back. Unfortunately the experience was not pleasant my hardon turned to jelly Sad.

You can at all times give feedback. Remember, you are the expert of your dick. If she's not doing it right, just give her direct feedback about what she should do, and compliment her once she does it better. Same goes for the kissing actually. Don't say she's doing it wrong, but you can stop, tell her to relax and close her eyes and follow your lead, and then kiss her the way you want to. Almost certainly will it get better then.

[juggernaut92]

all hail thor!

[Thor]

Oh please dont hail me Jugg's my head is beginning to get bigger

(06-02-2012 12:28 AM)juggernaut92 Wrote:  all hail thor!

[SeXyBaCk]

I'm not gonna sit here and commend you for turning down a blowjob.

Duh?! Just say woah "be careful there little suckerfish. Go easy on me". But...it's in the past now so whatever.

[Thor]

Appreciate the advice thanks mate

(06-02-2012 06:15 PM)SeXyBaCk Wrote:  I'm not gonna sit here and commend you for turning down a blowjob.

Duh?! Just say woah "be careful there little suckerfish. Go easy on me". But...it's in the past now so whatever.

[juggernaut92]

Hey thor I got a question for you mate. So with this girl did you just cut her off with out any explanation or do you feel that you owe her an explanation about why you don't like her any more. This kind of just got me thinking...

[Thor]

Great question Juggs, I thought about this later. Letme give you analogy. I walk down the road I see a charity fundraiser in front of me she\he stops me and starts talking about how they are raising money for charity for "save the children" and how if I contributed money each month I could save a child. She tries to get me to sign up. I refuse she then asks why I dont want to contribute. As lots of children and dying and starving in parts of india and africa.

Well I can either choose to answer her question or I can choose not too. I choose not too..excuse myself and walkaway. Why ? well I dont who this person is they are complete stranger to me. I dont owe them any explanations for my actions. Just because she\he got alittle emotional because I never signed up thats their problem.

There is no law in the UK that I have to justify why I said no.

Same thing I owe this girl nothing, we had a beautiful moment together and that was it. She is responsible for her own emotions thats not my problem.

[juggernaut92]

Wow that does make sense. I actually never really thought about it that way. If I was in the situation I would probably want to save her but yea that is why I asked. I guess I need to improve myself and never fall into that situation.

[Jones]

Wow. She told you she once tried to commit suicide, and you just dropped her like that? That's fucked up man. Seems like a really selfish thing to do, as far as I can see.

[Chaos]

Jones, not really. If you're on a date with a girl and she's already telling you that, on your first fucking date, that's a call for attention. You may try to "fix" her but definitively it's not your duty to do so. Specially when you have your own problems to handle.

You can't be the white knight for every girl you find out there. I would have done the same, see Baller's comment above. And by the way, she commented she tried to commit suicide when she was 19, so what? It's not like she's saying she about to do it right now... basically Thor met with her, screened her, didn't like what he saw and moved on, which is perfectly fine. Nothing "fucked up" there.

[Thor]

I know it sounds selfish mate but what Chaos says I feel is absolutely right. Plus if I spend half my life trying to fix other peoples problems which I have done in the past I will never get round to fixing my own issues.

(06-15-2012 11:50 PM)Jones Wrote:  Wow. She told you she once tried to commit suicide, and you just dropped her like that? That's fucked up man. Seems like a really selfish thing to do, as far as I can see.

[SeXyBaCk]

Still think you shouldn't be turning down bjs. They're often not so great at the start and get better when the girl gets going. You gotta give her a moment to get into it. Regular women aren't pornstars, they learn by doing.