Touching in daygame

[Schmechti]

Hey Mark,

you say to not touch during daygame except for the handshake, because it can startle her. However, in Models you write that it is good to touch her gently on the upper arm at the approach. You also say that she might come up with an excuse like that she has no time when I touch her at the approach. I am a bit confused which version is right

[Mark]

The arm thing is for night time...

You can touch during the day, but I found it less effective for me. I'm a pretty big guy though, so that may have to do with it. I have talked to people who do do it.

As with everything, try both and see what works better. But for me, I never touch during the day, always touch at night.

[Schmechti]

You are right, Mark. It is very important to be not creepy, especially in daygame. Often you have girls who cannot deal with a good direct approach during daygame, though. For instance, when their face turns red, they smile and say something like "I have no time" to get out of it. For me it does not look like a bad reaction, but more like an excuse. Should I re-open when they smile or just let it go?

[Mark]

Let it go.