The Success Stories Thread

[playmaker001]

Perhaps i was being a little harsh when I said there was a lot of negativity going on in this forum. The truth is, I just love hearing success stories from guys when it comes to women. Maybe it dates back to when I was a virgin who enjoyed reading lay reports on the speed seduction forum, brad p., etc. I just want to read about how guys on here have improved and had success with women. It brings elements of entertainment, and can give people hope that they will improve their dating lives as well.

So, if you have a success story that relates to Women and Dating, then let this be the thread you post it in. Looking forward to all the epic tales

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I'll go first.

This event took place last Friday (4-13-2012). There's this girl who I'd been hooking up with pretty regularly. I'll call her Lola. Anyways, Lola is by all means one of the most beautiful women I've slept with thus far. However, her physical beauty is where it ends. She's honestly one of the meanest and rudest girls I've ever met in my life. The saying, "if they're nice to you, but mean to the waitress, then they're not a nice person" perfectly describes her. But, she was hot and she seemed to dig me so I let it slide for a while. Last Friday was my last straw. We were both at this pool party that i threw. Upon entering the party, she was immediately rude and snobby to the guests. I told her to act like a lady and she calmed down for a while. However, 30 minutes later and a few drinks in, she started up again. She was name calling and calling girls fat, kept telling me how every guy there wanted her and I'm lucky to be fucking her, and a bunch of other BS. I called her out for being nasty again and she didn't like it. She reacted by trying to strike me in the face multiple times. Using my MMA skils (lol) I blocked her so she started throwing a fit. It was so embarrassing, and as beautiful as she is physically, she could not have been more ugly at that moment. Right then and there I realized (and I don't know what took me so long to figure this out in the first place) that this girl was bad for me. She was negative most of the time and was affecting my happiness. She also crossed boundaries I had set for any relationship. Instead of feeding this attention whore more attention, I simply said "I'm done" and cut off all contact with her. She's been hitting me up, but i ignore her calls and don't want to see her. In my mind, she doesn't exist anymore.

Why is this an success story? If you would have asked me last month, I'd tell you it's because I banged one of the hottest chicks on campus. Now, more wise than i once was, this is a success story because I value myself and my own happiness, and dropped her because I deserve better.

[Chaos]

Quickly, to follow the style you've set...

Three or four months ago I was really into a girl. She seemed perfect, funny, hot... we connected greatly... We kissed in our second date just before I drop her home, everything looked like the typical Hollywood movie. The next day I wrote her a message, we went on for a couple of minutes, my friends were going to a movie and I asked her if she wanted to come. She told me she had family coming home but she'd really like the idea and that she would give me a call later to let me know if I should pick her a ticket or not. She didn't and I didn't hear from her until two days later, where she acted like nothing happened. I told her she was giving me mixed signals... basically "you can't kiss me one night, then stood me up the next day then act like nothing happened" ... She said she'd only kissed me because "that's what she though I wanted".

Two months ago I met another really hot girl. I approached her and invited her out. We met, made out and had sex... We kept contact but we weren't able to see each other for almost a month. I ask her out and she was evasive and finally she "confessed" she had met another guy. I told her that was totally cool (and indeed it was) and wished her good luck with whatever developed.

So, again, why is that a success story? ... A year ago I would have been devastated by those things. I would have been thinking "what have I done wrong?" "where did I failed to play her" or "this guy must have something I don't have"...

But I didn't. In the first case I just nexted her. I didn't like where things were going, I wasn't liking what I was seeing and basically I regarded it as her being on a different place, being unsure or whatever, whereas before I would have thought there was something wrong about me!! In the second case I'm amazed at how I really didn't care. Of course I was disappointed, but I didn't take it as something I did wrong or another guy stealing her from me... just regarded it as life and moved on. Of course a little while later I met just another girl which is the one I'm seeing right now... and still I have no sense of neediness towards her... yeah, I like her and I like spending time with her... but I don't need her to be happy... And I wasn't like that a year ago.

[Traindom]

Awesome story, Chaos. I'm delighted to hear that you are in such a confident and very self-aware stage of your life. It's amazing the changes that can happen in a year. I'm happy for you, man.

[Jon]

Not sure if this counts as an epic success or an epic fail, but here goes:

so I got a bit too drunk last night (a friend ordered bottles) talked to some girls at a club in NY, and went home. This morning I found I got a text at 230 last night from a girl I have in my phone as "sarah french girl" saying "tell me the name of that fucking movie " I now vaguely recall that I talked to a french girl about a movie, and put my number in her phone. I cannot recall what movie, but I know I always rave about a french film called "Un Prophet" (great movie by the way). I take a guess and text her back with that, notice that autocorrect has changed it to In Prophet, so I send a second text with a correction, and say "stupid english autocorrect doesn't understand french" I expect that I will never hear from her again, but I just got a second text message saying "Hey Jon! thank u for the name of the film i will watch it. Did u make your brunch this 'morning'"

I had no plans to go to brunch, I don't remember telling her I did, or why I would have. I have no idea what she looks like, however, she seems to like me, although I am pretty sure I was plastered. I guess I'll have to use some "text game" or some shit. I will post an update if anything noteworthy comes of this.

Update:

Ok. I texted her and mentioned the weather. she said "I wish it was warmer, but I agree, perfect weather to hang out."

I responded telling her I was going out to a certain rooftop bar in meatpacking (that I am sure Mark knows, and anyone else in ny) and she replied with "I'm always around meatpacking"

[Jon]

Update 2:

My friend's girlfriend remembered her. Said she was very hot, and apparently I did not come off as a drunken idiot. Confirmed facebook photo, in fact hot. We'll see if she comes out.

[Jon]

Update 3: we're still texting back and forth. My friends all remember her, all said she was hot, and said I was on fire. I have no recollection of this. This is getting bizarre.

[SeXyBaCk]

Have you considered someone having slipped something into your drink on the night? GHB? Rohypnol/Roofie? Did you wake up disoriented the morning after?

How drunk would you have hadto be to have no recollection of the girl?

[Jon]

Well the thing is, I remembered the rest of the night. I got another girl's number later, I remembered her. I remember leaving, cab ride home, buying a sandwich, which episode of louie I watched. Plus my friends and I were all drinking from the same bottle so we all would have been roofied. I had like a 10 minute black out I guess.

[The Notorious PhD]

It would be funny-awesome if this was all a prank by your friends.

[Jon]

That occurred to me, but I have her email and was able to find a linked-in and facebook profile, in (correct) french. Her last name is, in fact, African. If it is a prank, it's the most elaborate prank ever.

[Reesays]

Alright, my turn, could not have found topic at a better time.

As you all know, I made a thread about this one girl that I hate the ONEITIS for.

http://postmasculine.com/forum/Thread-Li...a-move-tip

Well, the girl thought of me as a joke usually. She would ignore me when we were in a group and when we talked she seemed disinterested. In a way I let that get me down and thought that she was out of my league etc etc. So I would think of her and being with her and so forth (dumb beta White Knight garbage).

After a while, I did not run into her at all, must have been 2 weeks when I did not see her.

Saw her 2 days ago, we pass each other in the hallway, she looks at me, smiles, and says hi. I say hi right back without a smile and keep walking. I wonder why I even did that.

So I run into her yesterday, she says, "we are running into each other an awful lot, what do you think that means?", I say, "coincidence? maybe we are in the same place at the same time because we have the same type of work to do". She gives me the pissed off look, I smile and walk away.

Today, I was sitting in the school cafeteria eating breakfast. Guess who I see again? THAT GIRL. So she sits down at another table, I disregard her and keep eating my breakfast. Well I finish as I am walking to throw it away she is doing the same thing, we both throw it away at the same time.

She smiles and looks at me in a sillyway, I say "coincidence", smile and walk away. I did not care, maybe it is because I have a date lined up this Friday.

So later that afternoon we run into each other again, I look at her and smile and keep walking. "You can at least say hi!", is what she said. I look at her, smile, and say Hi. She laughs and says "you are different", I ask saying "taking shots at me now?', she says "that wasn't an insult". I tell her I have to get to work and to have fun with her finals. She says thanks, smiles, and walks away.

Thing is, I don't have those strong feelings for her, I am like "ya w/e".

[Guyintheback]

(05-02-2012 02:50 AM)Fg0rogop Wrote:  What do you think ?

If it's in response to Reesays' post I think it is uncalled for.


EDIT: Tim probably is right; in that case please delete my answer as well to keep the thread clean.

[Tim]

(05-02-2012 07:01 AM)Guyintheback Wrote:  

(05-02-2012 02:50 AM)Fg0rogop Wrote:  What do you think ?

If it's in response to Reesays' post I think it is uncalled for.

Posted the same pic twice under two accounts; fairly sure it's spam.

[playmaker001]

Plus the guy has a small dick so he gotsa goooo!

[SeXyBaCk]

Why is all the spam on the success story thread?

[andymiles]

The problem with us as men, that most of the time we judge a woman by the outside ignoring
totally the inside.
Its somehow OK if you want to have causal sex, but if you're looking for a long term relationship, that's a problem.
Never go out with someone who is ugly and jealous inside, no matter how beautiful she is.