The Definitive Thread of Penis Size Insecurity

[I_Dare]

I'll start with a couple of quotes:

Originally Posted by thenatural
Here are a couple of thoughts targeted to the guys who won't approach women because they are concerned their dick is too small.

First, do yourself a favor and subscribe to one of the websites with hardcore amateur submitted photos. This will do a few things. First, you'll get a more realistic range of working tools than you see in professionally produced porn. Second, it won't take you long to realize that there are a lot of guys with small to medium sized cocks having sex with hot women. These guys somehow have the confidence to not only approach and bang good looking women, but to document it in photographs and post in on the web. With a little attitude adjustment, this could be you.

Another tip from a a guy finishing his fourth decade on earth: As a general rule women have sex with you because they like you. (I will admit that there is the rare occurrence of a woman who hears that a guy is hung and will pursue just to try it on for size, but this kind of relationship is both unusual and really not worth having.) Once a woman has decided that she likes you and you get naked with her, you need to forget completely about your dick. In fact you need to drop all self centered and self conscious thoughts and do everything in your power to get her off. Listen, learn, care and blow her mind using every resource you have at your disposal. If you are a good man, a good lover and show genuine attention to her, she will like you, your cock and everything else. She will not be measuring your worth with a ruler. It's a package deal with the vast majority of well adjusted women.

Let me relate one short story from college. My best buddy and roommate had a small cock. I never saw it hard, but he told me once he was less than four inches. One night after a party, he brought a smoking hot girl back to his room. Since our rooms were adjoining and shared a suspended ceiling, I couldn't avoid hearing everything going on. Anyway, my girlfriend and I were laying there as my roomy and his new girl started to get frisky. Next thing you know, you hear her say "Who do you think you're going to get off with that little thing?" His reply? "Me." I made wide eyes at my girlfriend. She whispered "Hey, good answer." To make a long story short, within about ten minutes he had this chick screaming and crying like a wild animal. He obviously rocked her world. (Unfortunately, they repeated the performance way too early the next morning for my taste). After this night, this girl was attached to him like glue for a couple of months. Not only that, but once other girls saw him hanging with the hot chick, he was more attractive to them. The fact is that my dick was almost twice the size of his, but he got twice as much ass over that four year period. Think about it.

Source: ThundersPlace.org

---

“We need to have more confidence in our dicks and realize that size is not
our dicks only quality. Their are two pieces to the sexual puzzle for us males.
Quantity and Quality.
Quantity is the size of your dick.
Things to know about quantity. Size is not everything, I know people have
read this once or a thousand times and heard it. A dick that is too big can
make your women feel uncomfortable. Also when you go balls deep do you
want some of your dick not in vagina and not feeling the lush warm pussy. I
want you average sized guys to not be so insecure, accept your size and
think of getting a bigger dick as a hobby or interest. Just like hitting the
weights to increase muscular size or fat loss.
Quality is how you use your dick.
13
Things to know about quality. This is more important than quantity. Would
you like to be intimate with your woman connecting spiritually with her and
giving her multiple orgasms or just fucking for 30 minutes until your load
blows all over. Giving a woman a large amounts of pleasure is important.
Connect with your woman try to have breathing as one. Sex makes two
bodies become one. Multitask with your woman while you have sex to give
her multiple pleasures for a better enhancing orgasm. When I mean by
multitask is find things that arouse her even more every woman is different.
Giving a woman more pleasure is more important than just getting a bigger
dick.
Let's increase our confidence and our size by each jelq, clamp, hang,
stretch, edge, kegel and anything else that aids in our quest to PE.
Good Luck!”

Source ThundersPlace.org

---

MY OWN RESEARCH

I have confronted myself with penis size insecurity a big part of my life.

Reasons: - being "only" average (around 5,5) and I wasn't aware that I'm pretty girthy
- I thought having a curve makes my penis look ridiculous and it might hurt. Later I discovered that many men wish they had a curve cause it's actually quite fun for the girl (very good g-spot stimulator and more...)
- I had quite a few friends with really big dicks
- media and porn

Things I've learned in almost 2 years of research, talking with women, men, reading forum posts with personal experiences:
- women are not so obsessed with dicks like men are
- some women don't like big dicks because they have really small/tight pussies and don't really like hours of foreplay. I've met a girl like this and she's HOT.
- there ARE men with bellow average penises that are GREAT in bed, their women are obsessed with them sexually and brag about them.
- passion, being connected and masculine/dominant, having the correct frame of mind are far more important than penis size.
- some women like really big dicks... you have to accept that... just as some men like really big tits and ONLY go after that. Heck, some women like only really rich guys. There are all kinds of women...gold diggers, SIZE QUEENS...but they're not that many.
- many of the girls talking about how much they want a big dick are quite inexperienced...many of them end up with guys with average or small dicks
- women don't know what the fuck they are talking about... some call a 6.5 inch dick an 8 incher.
- not worrying about your dick in bed will make you a much better lover because you'll be more present, passionate, and focused on your partner...
- find someone compatible with you
- some of my friends that were players had penis sizes similar to mine, I know a guy who was bellow 5 inches. THE FRUSTRATION I felt when I found out how much fun I missed for having size anxiety was enormous. Still is.
- Understand that a woman may sometimes find your penis small, but if you're relaxed like the guy in the story from the beginning of the post you're up for fun most likely. Simply understanding that she knows nothing but will soon be pleasantly surprised will get rid of your anxieties. But you have to develop the other aspects of sexuality...especially unleashing freedom.
- I've met women who fucked many guys with all sizes and they had the most fun with a guy with a smaller-average penis. Now I'm obviously not saying smaller is better, don't distort my text.

TIPS FOR GUYS WHO WANT TO INCREASE THEIR DICK SIZE

1. Join the only valid forum on the subject http://www.thundersplace.org (It's a FREE NON COMMERCIAL FORUM) They aren't selling anything.
2. Ignore the guys that are obsessed with how important a big dick is. Many have severe psychological issues and are still obsessed even after getting that big dick.
3. Don't expect miracles, small guys usually grow faster but it's not a rule. A popular quote by the mods there: "It's not a sprint, it's a marathon."
4. READ READ READ. You'll see which threads are really important...the moderators bring them up a lot and have them in their signatures as articles.
5. Don't do anything before really understanding what's all this about, injuries are prone to happen if you adopt a foolish attitude.

RECOMMENDED ARTICLES/THREADS:


Great Interview on Penis Size

http://www.thundersplace.org/forum/showt...p?t=138241

Young Guys, size anxiety is Dumb

http://www.thundersplace.org/forum/showt...p?t=129252

Penis Size, a realistic view

http://www.thundersplace.org/forum/showt...p?t=135491

Small Guys, sex stories (a lot of positive stuff)

http://www.thundersplace.org/forum/showt...hp?t=67113

Small Penis Thread links

http://www.thundersplace.org/forum/showt...is+stories

---

Another thing, your probably know this.

Some guys are SHOWERS, others are GROWERS. I'm a GROWER that's why I'm often frustrated.

Two guys can have the exact same erect size but very different flaccid size.
I have a friend, his flaccid is A LOT bigger than mine but his erect size is about 1 cm larger.

[Mark]

I've heard just as many, if not more, women complain about dicks that were too big and hurt, than women who complained about dicks being too small. I even read an interview of porn actress Asia Carrera a long time ago who said she didn't like to do scenes with guys who were more than 7 inches because it hurt too much.

Like you said, men are far more concerned about this than women are. Good post.

[I_Dare]

BTW, I forgot to mention something. Women when they talk about SIZE and answer questions like "Does size matter?" they're actually talking about THEIR OWN EXPERIENCES AND THEIR OWN INTERPRETATIONS OF THEM.

For example if a girl slept with 6 guys....4 being small and shit in bed and 2 being hung and great lovers (or whatever...compatible with her) she'll obviously say it matters. Also, if she fucked all kinda guys but the best fuck was with a small guy....she'll say it doesn't matter.

Their answer is 100% in concordance to their to their past experiences and how they interpreted them...so it has more to do with her EX PARTNERS than what she really needs sexually.

Of course some women prefer larger because they have large pussies...or because they need that stretching feeling...or because roses are red...who cares.

Women are very different and don't take their opinions as pure truth.

A friend of mine who has a smaller dick fucked a woman who only fucks "donkeys"... (he turned her on by being very sexually explicit)...and she liked it enough to call him several times for sex. Now be aware that this woman told him she only sleeps with guys who are 8 inches and above.

[Thenewguy]

What about girls with big butts? Wouldn't that mean that less of you goes inside her since her cheeks stop a lot of the entry?

[FirstAidKit]

From a female perspective - it matters a bit. But not as much as most guys think it does. You want enough to feel... but then there's a ton of variation in vagina size so you're bound to find your match. If it was a casual thing I might be put off a bit by super small but if I liked the guy it wouldn't matter much.

I would also given the choice take talented fingers over a big dick. Also! In my experience the larger end of the spectrum tend to be pretty lazy - it's like clearly they have enough wang that they don't need to do anything else *rolls eyes*.

Last point: smaller dicks = much easier buttsex. And who doesn't love buttsex?

[CHB2]

Most of my female friends say too big is more of a problem than too small - at a certain point it just doesn't really fit.

Also, in the majority of sex I have had the girl has gotten off better with oral sex than with actual penetration - I think statistics back this up as well.

[Creatine Dreams]

Isn't increasing the size of you penis dangerous?

[I_Dare]

Yes you can injure yourself. Especially if you don't do it with care.

There are some VERY RARE cases where men have some circulatory problems in the penis and manual exercises like jelqing will destroy the (probably already messed up) veins and you won't be able to get erections any more or something like that. There was a warning about this on ThundersPlace. I met hundreds of guys who practiced penis enlargement and never heard of anyone that did it PROPERLY AND WITH CARE have trouble.

I advise you to go ask the experienced guys (especially moderators...especially firegoat, marinera and sta-kool) on TP as they have much more knowledge, insight and experience than anyone here.

[Drewid]

(06-21-2012 04:31 PM)I_Dare Wrote:  There are some VERY RARE cases where men have some circulatory problems in the penis and manual exercises like jelqing will destroy the (probably already messed up) veins and you won't be able to get erections any more or something like that. There was a warning about this on ThundersPlace. I met hundreds of guys who practiced penis enlargement and never heard of anyone that did it PROPERLY AND WITH CARE have trouble.

I do know someone this happened to, so definitely be careful.

[Dragonslayer]

I have no idea how big my dick is - either in absolute figures or in relation to other men. I just never cared. So when I read threads like this one I often wonder whether I'm the only human male on Earth who never had the urge to masturbate with a ruler at hand.

You might say that's just because I'm at least average or above. Maybe. But that's not the point. The point is, because I didn't care about it, penis size has never been an issue, either before the clothes-come-off point or afterwards. I never though of bringing the topic up and I'd be very hard pressed to remember a conversation where my counterpart brought it up (except for dirty jokes, of course). Okay, to be honest I am no that sexually experienced and neither were the few girls I have been with. But with some of them I had a very real connection where we had both opened up and could talk and discuss basically everything. And what can I tell you: Penis size never came up. Neither in relation to my own member nor in general. And also with my female BFF with whom I also talk a lot about sex I have discussed almost any topic I can imagine, but it doesn't seem that for her penis size is topic worth spending many words on.

I will not say, that there aren't some women who have a fetish on penis size. One thing I learned from the Internet is, that it isn't possible to imagine a fetish or sexual preference for which there aren't at least a few thousand people who have it ;-) What I'm trying to bring across instead is:

1) Without measuring I can't tell the exact size of my penis. And while women might have a bit more material to compare it against, I seriously doubt that they could distinguish a few centimetres more or less.

2) The question, whether a big deal is a big deal, is only a big deal when you make it a big deal. (Wow, I've alway wanted to say that.)

So, just relax, accept things that you can't change[1] and realize that real life isn't a porn movie. Women who are in touch with their sexually know fully well that they can't fulfill expectations generated by porn movies, and therefore usually don't get their own expectations from porn either.

[1] I'm still not fully convinced that any penis length enhancement method actually works. And if you think about the anatomy it makes sense: in contrast to boobs, who basically consist of fat, which can easily be propped up with a bit of silicone, a penis is a much more complex organ.

[I_Dare]

@Dragonslayer - there are quite a few articles on TP explaining exactly what happens when doing the exercises.

Practically....the penis is a sponge, not a muscle. When you jelq... blood moves powerfully through the penis destroying at a very micro level inner parts of the sponge, increasing it's capacity. When the sponge heals...the capacity to hold blood increases. This is a very simplistic explanation... for a more in detail one visit some specialized websites like the one mentioned. This is a long process, it depends on your anatomy and it doesn't happen over night.

That forum is FULL of before and after pics shared in the signatures of totally random members. If it was bullshit it wouldn't have so many members, some of them being there since the beginning, and it's a pretty old forum.

[Drewid]

One thing I'll mention here is that weight loss will make your penis appear larger. Also your dick will "hang" better once you're thinner.

Posture seems to matter as well, although obviously you won't always be standing up when exposing it to a sexual partner.

[I_Dare]

@Drewid.

Losing weight can not only make your penis APPEAR larger....it will literally make what we call NBPEL (non bone-pressed erection length = the part that is actually visible) bigger.

BPEL (bone pressed erection length) is the total size of your penis. If you press into your fat pad you will notice that the shaft continues inside. (just like the clitoris)

BPEL = NBPEL + fat pad
If the fat pad decreases by general loss of weight, your NBPEL will grow because BPEL is a constant.

Also Drewid is right because losing weight will make your penis look bigger IN RAPPORT to your whole body....which will make it look bigger in general.

So:

BPEL - constant, can be increased via PE exercises, otherwise it stays the same no matter your weight.
NBPEL - somewhat variable, it increases via PE along with your BPEL (common sense) but it also depends on how much of the total size is covered with fat (it depends of your fat pad size)

EL = FULL Erection Length (100% erections, no semis)

------------------------------------
Same goes for flaccids. Just replace EL with flaccid size

------------------------------------

Sickness, stress, high fatigue can negatively influence penis size. I've met a guy who had diabetes or something like that and his penis literally shrink-ed. His erections SEEMED full but they weren't. After doing jelqs a period of time his penis returned to its previous size. I guess you don't NEED to do jelqs in that situation but they sure seemed to help in this guy's case. The reason I posted this is for guys to not get scared if shit like that happens...

I just wanted this thread to be as complete as possible.

[Halo Effect]

I_Dare, you talk about success stories on the forum, but what about YOU? Have you had success with the technique? How much?

[I_Dare]

I was waiting for that question Halo.

Well... here's my story. (SHORT ANSWER AT THE END IF NOT INTERESTED IN DETAILS)

1. I've joined the forum being EXTREMELY insecure. You see...if you have a belief and want to validate it your subconscious will attract information to validate it. So I found all kinds of websites selling penis enlargement stuff...devices, pills, books, whatever. Of course these websites had clever marketing... a lot of evolutionary psychology bullshit claiming that REAL ALPHA MEN have huge dicks and that's what ultimately attracts women bla bla. ( Of course meanwhile in other parts of the world, guys with dicks smaller than mine were banging hot girls...but what did I know? )

2. I've learned about the exercises but injured myself a couple of times. After that I've read A LOT, talked with members and noticed there were more types of people:
- really abnormally fucked up guys... these guys seemed dumb and obsessed. They already had a big dick but were complaining all the time that they want to be HER biggest EVEN THOUGH it hurts her... very annoying idiotic bastards. BTW, there was a guy who got bigger and his wife wouldn't fuck with him anymore. He got too big for her.
- guys with really small dicks (4 inches and bellow) that really needed help...well, at least that's what we all felt (read my story from the first post on the 4 incher who was a total player )
- guys with big dicks who would boost their egos by showing off and telling everyone how big of a thing being big is.
- "normal guys" who were doing it like fitness. They didn't think they NEED a big dick they were just doing it as a hobby and as an interesting thing. They always had satisfying sexual lives and they could give good advice on other aspects of sex that they considered more important.
I learned a lot with guys in the last category. They seemed the only normal people on the forum.

3. I thought: Is it worth it?

Things I noticed:
- some of the guys dramatically increased their sexual life's quality BUT it was not just because of the inch they gained. I can't tell you for sure if that inch made the difference for sure...but ALL OF THEM who reported better sex lives said their attitude changed along with the size. What actually happened is that they stopped believing they had a small penis because their dick ACTUALLY got bigger/big. This belief attracted another belief: My dick can no longer be TOO SMALL... so I can just relax and fuck. I personally believe this is the MAJOR reason for their increase in sex life quality.
- some of the guys claimed no changes.... they say sex was as good at 5 inches as it was at 7... their women some times mentioned "you're big/ bigger"...got some compliments on size or whatever... but they were always good in bed so it didn't made much of a difference. This combined with so many reports from small guys saying they got comments from women like "this was the best sex ever", along with many mature moderators and experienced guys telling me size is not that important and skills/beliefs/presence and passion (and all that psychological/emotional stuff) is far more important than size.
- some guys with thin dicks had bad experiences with wide pussies and that's why they got in there. It wasn't my case but even if it was...a solution would be finding girls that are more compatible.
- many guys started having OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) after PE... even though their dick got to like 7.5 inches (which contrary to popular belief is quite a rarity...not EXTREMELY rare but quite rare)
- many guys got really injured because they did weird shit to their penis. Some penises in pictures looked disgusting.
- growing a big dick meant an increase of confidence for some guys... because they started believing "Now I'm what women want, I can go direct."
- having a big dick doesn't imply you're great with women and not an idiot.

4. I got injured - I pulled too hard while doing lateral left stretches and I injured my right ligament. OUCH! The urologist said I'll be ok but it made me reconsider my activity.

5. Change of beliefs: I measured my penis again because for whatever reason I believed I was girthy...even though measurements classified me as "a bit above average but still in average range". What I noticed was that even though my girth was 5.2 or 5.3... my width was considerably bigger than other guys with similar girth. This is because my penis's section at ...let's say...middle length...is not a circle, it's an oval. So instead of being like this O it was like this ( ). So actually I had an approximately average girth but a 1.8 width...which is what many guys at 7-8+ inches have (mine is only around 5.7 inches length...maybe 6 when I'm lean). I also found out my PRONOUNCED upward curve was kind of a bonus making my penis hit the g-spot and feel somewhat even more girthy. I've fallen into a depression for 2 days because I though I had Peyronies disease due to the pronounced nature of my curve. I got checked by the doc and he told me I'm naturally that way and there's no reason to worry.

I was afraid that if I continue doing stretches the superior part of my penis will increase...thus making my penis very uncomfortable for the girl and ruin my sex life. Also...I supposed that dry jelqing (the more dangerous version) would increase my width even more... which was very unnecessary.

I also noticed that wet jelqing has increased my foreskin length...which was a bit unnaturally long already. I didn't hear other guys COMPLAIN about this but I didn't like it at all.

6. I thought: It's risky (I got injured kinda bad at least once), I already have a pretty acceptable penis....there's no way in hell I can get "Is it in yet" from a normal girl....being almost 2 inches wide and with an upward curve, I know much about sex from these guys, PE takes a lot of my time ...and I can also deform my penis so that it becomes useless. Shit, I should let this go...seriously. PLUS! I'm a fucking virgin and my school situation sucks cause I have been thinking about dick size all the time. I have a lot of other stuff to work on! Also, my roomates think I'm a compulsive masturbate-er because I spend so much time at the shower. That's what went though my mind... so I stopped practically doing it. I became a regular user, spending more time on forum laughing at the funny shit in the FUNS section.

Johnny Soporno told me he has an average dick with a pretty big girth, so I thought I kinda like him so I'm ok.

---------------------------------------
Short answer:

Time spent with PE: a few months
Increases: probably 0 inches in length and .1 in girth...practically nothing.
Results: somewhat increased erection quality and frequency of erections.

This is the reason why I sent everyone interested in PRACTICAL "HOW TO" to go to the forum as opposed to asking me.

--------------------------------------
WARNING:

PE without the proper mindset is like using Mystery Method for dating while being a low self esteem total mess.
PE requires INNER GAME (an already decent level of self esteem + PRESENCE...you have to pay very much attention to your body...both while doing it AND at night/the next morning. For more info on this search for a thread called "PI: Physiological indicators of health") combined with a clear UNDERSTANDING of what you are doing.

---------------------------------------

Probably final thoughts

Having a big dick will forever be only ONE part of the puzzle. Yeah, some women with fetishes will fuck you for having a really big dick....just like some women will fuck you cause they REALLY like the way you look. But if you think it's a magic pill to solve all your problems, think again.

Some guys fail simply because they're so caught up in this "my dick is so big" that they disregard everything else... becoming shitty lovers, shitty people, shitty everything...

I don't think successful guys think much about their dick size.

Women's visual perception of penises sucks anyway, so stop caring about what she'll think about your penis. It's not fun for her, it's not sexy and you're ruining the mood. Just trust that SHE'LL FEEL good when it's inside and that's all that matters. This is a great time to apply David X's rule number 1: Who cares what she thinks. (Examples: Some dude had a nine inch penis and his girl thought he was average. Some other dude had a 6 inch totally average penis and his girl thought it looked huge for whatever reason.) If she keeps insisting in the relationship that your dick is small than that's a WTF (and it can mean a lot of things like: 1. she wants to hurt you. 2. she doesn't like sex with you for various reasons that may or may not have anything to do with your penis like: You're passionless, robotic, boring in bed, non-dominant towards submissive. Mark can answer this question better. Your reaction should be probably calibrated to the situation... possible decisions going from dumping her to communicating and fixing the problem by changing your behavior in bed OR/AND seeing if her state - low level of turn on, mindracing, bla bla - is not the reason "your dick is too small". ) but looking at her the first time you have sex with a "is my size ok?" look on your face is just...not sexy. Just have fun... and consider that you are both 2 OK people that are sharing a sexy and fun experience. She's probably more insecure than you anyway, so relax her by being relaxed. "Be so focused on her that you forget about yourself".Hypnotica. Make her feel sexy instead of worrying.

Not having limiting beliefs around your size and being totally comfortable with who/how you are + having an understanding of sexuality + being passionate and sexually free + having a connection with the woman... are WAY more important than having a big/huge dick... and any woman with experience can confirm that.

Many guys with small dicks ARE getting laid, some of them with very beautiful women.

PE is somewhat dangerous, most guys if they're lucky get gains like: 1-2 inches in length + .5-1 inch in girth( if they're lucky, dedicated and attentive). Guys with 3 inch gains are RARE. Guys with 4 inch gains in length like most commercial websites claims are HMM... let me explain...out of all the members at TP ...and they're hundreds of thousands... I've heard of 2. And those 2 guys did some pretty EXTREME shit to their dicks OVER A LONG PERIOD OF TIME. Girth gains are more difficult but possible. Advanced exercises LOOK very dangerous and need a lot of experience and proper conditioning. READ, THINK ABOUT IT, PUT THINGS IN BALLANCE and DECIDE what you want and what you're willing to do.

Having a big dick implies that some women will find you as too big...simply because God decided to create many women with small pussies. it also means you have to be way more careful...it can hurt. Even though pussies stretch and grow when the woman is really turned on, some compatibility is recommended. So the idea that "All women would like me more if I had 8 inches" is bullshit. Many women I know claim to have had the best sex with smaller guys.

I hope my insight was COMPLETE and HELPFUL for those of you who needed this information.

Let go of the bullshit and if you really want to PE do it from the right frame and with proper care.

Take care,
I.Dare

[SeXyBaCk]

So.... you're not a virgin anymore right?

It's good you came away from it, some of the behaviours you listed were indeed compulsive.

[I_Dare]

Yes I am. I got sick right after getting away from most of the bullshit. But I seem to have had quite a few girls interested in me...

That's the reason my threads are mostly questions as opposed to advice on dating.

[Tobias]

Ever heard of balooning? It works best with a patient partner and takes time. But you can try on your own

http://www.actionlove.com/cases/case10565.htm

Differences between ballooning and your exercises

http://www.actionlove.com/cases/case11114.htm

[SeXyBaCk]

I heard if you stick your dick in the vacuum cleaner you might earn yourself a free ride to the A&E/the ER (it does happens).

Seriously guys, stop hurting your pricks. It's just skin, blood vessel some spongy bodies and nerves, you break it once, it can't be made good again, it'll scar horribly. If you're under 3 inches go see a specialist surgeon about enlargement. Otherwise stop tugging, attaching weights, lateral somethingrathering your member, you're gonna break it. OP guy, you're fine. What's far more important to women is that it works when it should, eg get hard, cause if it doesn't they feel they're doing something wrong. Women much more prefer a smaller dick that is readily ready to go whenever they want than some large thing that hardly ever wakes up. Yes it's nice if you have both but really, there are far more important things in life to keep women happy. The size of your wallet for instance.

[Zac]

I used to be insecure about the size of my penis (turns out I'm right on the average button) until I had sex and realized girls liked having sex with me. Then I stopped giving a fuck.

I would imagine most guys that are insecure about this haven't pleased many girls. If you have, I don't know how you could be insecure about this.

[Creatine Dreams]

Just go to wikipedia and search "micropenis" and you will feel better about yourself.

[SeXyBaCk]

I've seen more pricks in my professional life than I care. And most of them really are pricks not dicks and definitely not cocks.

That said I've always been proud of mine and tend to prance around nude when I have a lady over. What is there not to like?

[crazyhorse]

Didn't Goodlookingloser put a lot effort into penis enlargement?

http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/03/...beginners/

http://www.goodlookingloser.com/exercise...t-routine/

There is more to check on his website. Anyway he went from average I think, to pretty well endowed.

He actually said it's the best sex toy you can give to a girl .

sorry I'm being the devils advocate here

[Zac]

I'm sorry, but all of that just sounds dangerous. I love my penis, I don't want to hurt it, no girl has ever complained. That being said, to each their own.

[I_Dare]

@SexyBack - what do you mean by pricks? Really small dicks?

Dude this thread was not for you if you're "very well endowed". No need to brag here. I don't think you're helping or inspiring anyone by telling us how big and good looking and whatever your dick is )