Sticking Point : Bad Clubs and Bars

[WestGame]

Sticking Point:

Hello friends, I live in a small city. The Clubs here are small and the best girls are in Clubs where it is so loud that you can not even talking to them. There are some Bars here with hot girls, but the girls amount are minimal. We do not have Venues with many hot girls and without loud music. What can I do, what are the solution?

[Tim]

Either figure out how to get around the loudness factor or find other ways to meet women. During the day, at quieter bars, take a class or join a social activity such as a book club. I'm sure Mark's book or programs suggest pretty much every place you would ever meet a hot woman.

[CHB2]

Are there any yoga classes? I have been getting back into yoga lately and I have been completely floored by the amount of attractive women at the classes. The ratio of women to men is at least 5:1, sometimes closer to 10:1 and more than half of the women have been very cute.

Tim's suggestions are all great as well.

[WestGame]

(03-14-2012 07:47 PM)Tim Wrote:  Either figure out how to get around the loudness factor or find other ways to meet women. During the day, at quieter bars, take a class or join a social activity such as a book club. I'm sure Mark's book or programs suggest pretty much every place you would ever meet a hot woman.

BUT, the chance to find a attractive girl in this places are not high.

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(03-14-2012 08:02 PM)CHB2 Wrote:  Are there any yoga classes? I have been getting back into yoga lately and I have been completely floored by the amount of attractive women at the classes. The ratio of women to men is at least 5:1, sometimes closer to 10:1 and more than half of the women have been very cute.

Tim's suggestions are all great as well.

Nice to hear, what places to you recommend addinional?

[Tim]

(03-14-2012 08:10 PM)WestGame Wrote:  

(03-14-2012 07:47 PM)Tim Wrote:  During the day, at quieter bars, take a class or join a social activity such as a book club.

BUT, the chance to find a attractive girl in this places are not high.

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Nice to hear, what places to you recommend addinional?

Those are all places you will find hot women, or I wouldn't have recommended them.

To clarify though, here's a long list of places: Yoga classes, social sports teams (Football/Soccer, Tennis, Volleyball, etc), book clubs, gyms, wine-tasting events, book signings, live music events, dance classes, volunteer programs, cooking classes, foreign language classes, pretty much any class ever, religious groups (not my style but if you are then yes, really), couch-surfers meetups, anywhere on the street in the cooler parts of your city. Pretty much anywhere ever, if you go out and look for them.

[WestGame]

This Sticking Point is very hard for because. You have to approach at least 10 girls per week. I want it, but i do not have the oppurtunities.

[Vytas80]

I live in a town with like 500.000 population.
Here is a list of places where I have recently met women, got numbers, went out with them (and slept with some of them):

1. At the club. Just grabbed her and dragged her to the dancefloor. We started to talk 5-10 minutes later. You dont need to speak a lot at the clubs.
2. Outside of the club while having a smoke.
3. By doing voluntary activity in some random university project.
4. Online.
5. On the public bus. The girl barely made it to the bus and she had to run like a sprinter. I teased her about that, we laughed and I got the number once we reached my stop.
6. Cold approached on the street. It was 5 am, I was with a buddy, we were drunk, met two girls on our way home, they were a bit drunk too... got numbers.
7. Through social circle. Got invited to a party and there were some previously unknown people. I ended up seeing one of the girls I met here for some time.

So opportunities are abundant. Yet, I think that the smaller the town is, the more social circle factor becomes important. You can also consider moving to a bigger city

[Tim]

(03-15-2012 07:36 AM)WestGame Wrote:  This Sticking Point is very hard for because. You have to approach at least 10 girls per week. I want it, but i do not have the oppurtunities.

Make it happen man. I made you that huge list for a reason; if you're willing to put in the effort, you will find hot women. Ok, so with your lifestyle right now you aren't meeting hot women. What can you change about that to integrate one of the suggestions that people in this thread are giving you and make it happen?