Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (pt 2)

[Reesays]

YUP. I am back in business folks, back in business and good to go. So the first thread had some magic to it and after getting things resolved I decided to work on style and other aspects of myself and give this thing a try.

Currently a GQ reader, picking up on style tips online, taking care of grooming, trying new hairstyles, new clothing combinations, and the results have been coming.

here is a new pic

http://i42.tinypic.com/182nu9.jpg

So today I ended up having a 10 minute conversation with a girl and got a # too today. Funny because she was in a class of mines last semester.

Gonna stop the Starbucks approaching BS, may try at malls and getting more party invites now.

[Tim]

Nice! That is definitely a change for the better Reesays. Keep going and keep us updated!

[Jon]

Nice dude. Good pic. Small thing though - get white v neck t shirts for when you wear a button down like that. It is a all thing but it will make you look put together.

[SeXyBaCk]

Yeah, same minor thing...best are undershirts...that don't show at all. I never wear tshirts under dress shirts...for one they feel uncomfortable and make your torso take a bulky unnatural shape, and they make you look like you're wearing too many layers of clothes. Even just shirt and jacket or if its cold undershirt and shirt. Apart from that women like to think youre not wearing anything underneath your shirts ...makes them want to slip their hands in. A thick cotton tshirt is just a needless barrier. Oh and keep those eyebrows in check. Otherwise "quite a dashing fellow" my grandmother would so.

Aren't there organised parties on campus? Just decide to go to every party you see a flyer of... force your friends to go too. Initiate dat peer pressure.

[Matty]

Nice shirt. Agreed though, vneck or nothing, and undo the second top bottom, looks a little stuffy. Have you thought about growing a badass goatee? Judging by your stubble, it looks like you could pull it off.

[Reesays]

nope, no parties on campus at all, not that type of college

[SeXyBaCk]

Around town? What kind of place is this anyway? What place with you people doesn't have events wed,fri,sat,sun?

Also, ever do contacts, mix it up a little. Specs aren't a problem only time they can get in the way is the dance floor and making out.

[TheBoss]

I would suggest losing the glasses. Also don't wear a tshirt under your dress shirt. The colour of your dress shirt also looks kind of boring. Overall, you're giving up a nerdy vibe if I have to be honest.

[Tim]

I disagree about the nerdiness... sort of. If you get rid of the t-shirt it should like fine. I like those frames, so I think the glasses can work, although contacts are simpler if you're not sure how to wear them yet. Otherwise I think Reesays looks sharp.

[IdEngager]

Looking good Reesays. I split my time between glasses (which are even thicker than yours) and contacts and results are pretty split as to what people prefer. I've had people tell me I'm much more handsome without glasses, and other people tell me to keep the glasses. Making out with a chick who also wears glasses is indeed hilarious, though there's always the "fuck it, we don't need these glasses!" moment (that's when you know it's on). If you can afford it, I'd keep both so you have the option. Haircut is much better though.

Basically if I were an 18 year old chick I'd ask you to stick it in me.

[SeXyBaCk]

yeah he's looking good, no issues on that front. I have perfect eyesight but did the fashion accessory specs a few times years ago. Sort of worked. People do think you look more intellectual. Like I said..just mix it up, nighttime, socialising contacts...daytime..library...reading the paper in starbucks: specs.

I'm gonna have to veto any facial hair though. Stubble works a charm on weekends/mornings, 2 days max, then go clean shave again. Some women like the look of beards and other facial hair but 95% don't want to feel it on their neck/face/ass apart from the stubble. And random long bits of hair sticking out of your face...Dude. No. Just No. Think about it.

Just don't be that guy who is crawling around on the floor looking for his lense that slipped out .

Otherwise just make sure your socks match your pants (and don't fluff), your shoes are immaculately clean, finger/toe nails are clean and smooth. Err... since you're a hairy fellow...keep those nose/ear/back pubes in check, well all pubes really, goes without saying.

I disagree on him looking much nerdy. Nor is nerdy style necessarily bad, it could work for him, he's masculine enough. What I personally aim for is looking sharp, clean, put together, without looking like a great deal of effort was exerted on my appearance.

[Reesays]

I got a date in about 30 minutes so get back to you guys on the results

[crazyhorse]

weren't you always complaining about your looks? I looked at your picture and you definetly look good. Have invested a lot of time in your appearence yet? You're going to look really good if you put more effort into that.

Why else do you think these girls go on dates with you?

I actually think that a lot of guys would kill for such opportunities. Keep in mind that you're just starting out as well. Most guys they go through months of rejection before they even get a date.

[Reesays]

date went great actually, I did not kiss her but we had a great conversation, about 30 minutes after I got home I got a text from her saying where we should go next

she says she wants to see Avengers with me

[Halo Effect]

Avengers is awesome. Date will be good even if it doesn't work out with her. Win-Win.

[Reesays]

date almost coming up, will aware on results

[Reesays]

date went pretty well, we are really close now and people think that we are a couple pretty much

yesterday I struck up a convo with this Asian girl WAY OUT OF MY LEAGUE in terms of looks and ended up getting to know her pretty well

[Zac]

(05-09-2012 09:15 PM)Reesays Wrote:  I struck up a convo with this Asian girl and ended up getting to know her pretty well

FTFY

[Reesays]

So I have found that spending nearly every Friday at a mall and away from the computer has slowly become a good idea. Being in a small city like mines, it seems that you almost always see familiar faces.