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Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
The strangest thing is that he was just eating out some cute white chick a couple days ago and he's had no setbacks so far in his interactions with her yet. Can't you just be thankful for your current good fortune and progress??? I haven't gotten any in a few months and while I'm not exactly happy about it I'm not too worried, I'd be pretty happy right now to have a better ratio of chicks hitting me back up (or in one case, one being in the process of moving to some Walden-like existence in the California redwoods)! But I've been busy working on other things that make me happy and I'm not too concerned about my ability to attract a lady in the long run.

Reesays you are doing good!!! You are totally gonna bone this chick and then you're gonna realize it is OK!!! You have literally tasted victory!!! And when you bust a nut in her face, remember that your friends at Postmasculine said "Yo dawg, you just gots to chill, everything's gonna be alright!!!" But don't literally think that as you're doing that, that'd be awkward.
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
I am a freaking 19 year old virgin.............


SAD.........

I am getting closer and closer but just this whole notion of it kills me, like I am actually a rare occurrence in American society
Well, I had two exams which ended today, both were mind breaking. One was an Organic Chemistry exam and another was an exam in my World Cultures class which is a core per-requisite, we had to write like basically 4 pages by hand for the essay part, UGH!!!!!

Gonna start approaching this weekend brahs, hitting you back on the results!
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
You sure do complain a lot.

Here's a homework assignment. Post in this thread five things in your life which you're grateful for and why you appreciate them.
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
Quote:I am actually a rare occurrence in American society

You're not.

And even if you were, who gives a fuck? It's not like you're forced to go around with a giant V stitched on your shirt.
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
Swear to god I was so f*cking pissed today. Chemistry exam in the morning and a huge world cultures exam right after it. I swear I wrote so much on it and studied for it and everything but f*cking shit! I think I did not get the grade I wanted on the chem exam and may end up with a B in that freaking class. It is so sad too. I had high hopes but man did I f*ck up big time. Plus I made a low B on my first world cultures exam because that SAME DAY I had the final draft due for another class. Sh*t like this in college annoys the living LIFE OUT OF ME!

Finished my exam today and dang it felt like I got hit by strong anesthesia!!!

I swear today was so f*cking miserable, DX
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
I missed the part where you posted 5 things you were thankful for.

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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
He kind of reminds me of Pradeep in the tv series "The pickup artist" (Great fun to watch if you have some time to kill). Insecure with low self esteem, which is rationalized away to toxic beliefs. I fear that the point where he actually gets to fuck a woman will be an anticlimax. And I find it worrying that the posts are either complaining, expecting complaining or neutral descriptions of what is going on. Where is the joy man?

That being said, progress and perseverance will lead to succes. Undoubtedly. But I feel that to reach real joy you will have to deal with internal issues more than external ones (such as getting laid or being a virgin). As Mark implied; you seem to have a negative worldview, focusing on the bad. This is a self-reinforcing worldview which will radiate outward and which women pick up on. You'll get much better results if you start to act and think more positively.

So I'll repeat his homework : Just write down 5 things that you do that make you feel happy and positive about them.
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
So today I was at the grocery store, long line. I had to buy a protein bar and some other stuff, one woman in front of me (swear to god, attractive blonde, much older than me though) says:

"wow, I can see those results paying off, trying to get bigger"

I reply saying: "thanks, no, just trying to get cut and slim like you"

her: "OOOooo you are such a sweet one aren't you"

me: I can only wish others think so

her: smiles at me and says "don't worry, I am sure they do"

Thing is, I got a bit of an ease in my mind but I have figured out my kryptonite and problem.

Asian, Black, Hispanic, and all minority women I can talk to with ease. Even the same with brunettes and gingers. Yet when it comes to blondes, I get this thing in my head that they are all a bunch of princesses, before even knowing her I gather up a huge animosity, I tend to keep my distance from guys who white knight them and go crazy for them, have openly said to my friends I would never date or screw one, etc.

Like one time in the library a good looking blonde sat next to me and smiled, I gave her a stern look and got my stuff and sat away from her.

It is like my excessively bad experiences with them down south (most might be dyed) and just them being put on the pedestal in a way has made me bitter towards them.....

Well, least I know those are the only type of women I will get nervous around. The rest though, with ease brahs, I have no issues talking to them even if they are attractive.
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
1. Food and Shelter.
2. Clothes on my back
3. Fought through struggles of going to a ghetto school, being bullied for not being Black (seriously), and still I stand
4. I do have a mind and find myself bright
5. Despite what others might say, I find my looks decent!

there ya go

one day mark, mark my words (no pun intended), I am going to grow out of this demonic insecurity, get some cash, and pay for the both of us to travel to some countries (Spain and Italy mainly). I will try to game women there and it will end up two ways:

1. You will say my game is good and I get to nail that good looking mediterranean woman, and you get to say "I TOLD YOU SO!".

2. My game is perfect but I get rejected for whatever reason, for which we will wonder (and you can bet I will say me being foreign had to do with it)

Till then, time for me to game the women here aka the dixie (who I am not really too fond of).

Next post I make will be an approach post!
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
The underdog is back! Just when the sheer number of threads you had on here was getting very annoying, you come up with something to make us all believe again! Attaboy Reesays, you just bought yourself a lot more of my patience. Keep it up.
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
Remember the b*tchy brunette I was telling you guys about? The one from starbucks. Well she goes to the same university as me.

Well today I was at the school library, went a little off task and decided to read some post on here. I hear a tiny bit of a laugh behind me, I turn around and then hear her say, "19 year old virgin here folks!".

I turn back around and ignore her, she then says, "I feel so sorry for you, hey we should go on a date sometimes, doesn't look like you have been having much luck".

I decide to ignore her again and she gets close to my ears saying, "you won't ever get a chance like this my brown friend".

I gulp and then log out and get up. She says, "look, I have an Indian female friend, she tells me about how strict and bad you guys parents can be. Just because you had a sheltered upbringing does not mean you have to make it your life goal to be some womanizer". She kept babbling on and then told me some more BS and whatever.

Regardless, won't be seeing this site in public anymore! But still, what is with that b*tch.

Ended up sitting at a table with some Asian - White mixed girl though. Conversation went great, we got to know each other more and more and, I GOT HER NUMBER!
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RE: Shouldn't the point of "game" or "PUA" be to pick up all kinds of women? (my log)
Seek therapy.
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