Should I purchase the Approach Women Program while in college?

[Thenewguy]

Keeping it simple, I have gotten better with confidence towards women significantly since last year, but I still have random bouts of anxiety and it bothers me very much. I have anxiety actually walking up to a girl and talking to her a lot of times, only when I'm in a really good mood can I do it.

I'm almost done the conversation program, which has really helped me (especially the connection part, definitely worth the money), but I feel it needs to be supplicated with confidence too, It's like I have the weapons but I can't use them to my full ability. I honestly am a believer that the majority of conversational skill is your beliefs/confidence.

I would purchase the program now to solve this issue but I heard cold approaching in college is not very effective. And if the program is teaching cold approach in street situations/bars/clubs then I don't know how well it will benefit me. I'm guessing the training for the CBT will be universal but I just want another opinion besides mine.

[Mark]

Some college guys are going through it. One already finished it (he's a forum member if he wants to chime in). So it is doable. If you're under 21, the night time sections may be a little more difficult.

Cold approach is totally viable in college, it's just not as effective as social circle. But if your goal is to get over anxiety, the program will help you. None of the program is weird or creepy either, so you won't make a bad reputation for yourself.

[Thenewguy]

True. Did you come up with the price for the 2 for 1 deal yet?

[Mark]

I'll set it up when the third one comes out.

If you finish the connection program, you can stay a member of it for free though.

[playmaker001]

Yeah I'm in college and I finished the approach program a while ago. I'm doing the conversation program now and I'm loving it. I don't know if the school year is already almost over for you but it is for me. That being said, if you feel you have the time to do it, I would sign up. I used the skills I learned from the approach program to have more girls in my social circle. I approached them, hit on some of them and invite them to parties, social functions, etc. Also, i plan on approaching like hell next year when our campus gets new freshman. This is the perfect time to get the girls because they're new to everything, don't know many people, and haven't joined sororities yet. I say if there's time, go for it because there are night game approaches in the program as well.

[Thenewguy]

Great, yea the year's gonna be over in like a month. Hopefully I'll be able to transfer to NYU next semester so I will transfer my skills there. Plus being in the city, I'll actually be able to direct approach people anyway.

Thanks.

[Todd1]

@ Playmaker: I'm also a college student and while I don't have a problem meeting girls I'm having trouble meeting them again later. There have been a lot of girls that I get their number, seem to vibe with, and never meet up with again.

I've tried inviting girls out to parties and had mixed results. A lot of times girls seem interested but end up following their friends to other parties. I've also had two girls flat out tell me that they really don't like to party / drink hard.

I'm wondering how you meet up again with the girls you meet. I feel like taking girls on a date, even for coffee, is not the social norm in college. I would love to hear advice anyone may have. Thanks.

[Jean DeCuir]

(06-29-2012 02:36 AM)Todd1 Wrote:  @ Playmaker: I'm also a college student and while I don't have a problem meeting girls I'm having trouble meeting them again later. There have been a lot of girls that I get their number, seem to vibe with, and never meet up with again.

I've tried inviting girls out to parties and had mixed results. A lot of times girls seem interested but end up following their friends to other parties. I've also had two girls flat out tell me that they really don't like to party / drink hard.

I'm wondering how you meet up again with the girls you meet. I feel like taking girls on a date, even for coffee, is not the social norm in college. I would love to hear advice anyone may have. Thanks.

Hey, Todd.

Everyone who have been in the game for a while knows that getting a phone number is not something to be excited about. A lot of phone numbers flake. Sometimes girls flakes just because they are not looking for a guy right now or because they don't want to cheat on their boyfriend so you really rely on luck as soon as you leave her. Sometimes woman flake on you because they don't feel atracted to you at all, no matter what you do or say. Rejection makes part of the game.

The main rule to prevent a woman from flaking is trying to spend as much time as you can with her and build a connection. But well, the politics that prevent flakes decently is this: Fuck phone numbers. That's not a close. That's just a chance at a date. Fuck it! Just approach, isolate (or not) and Kiss her. Simple. Effective. Offcourse building as much confort as you can so that she (or you) won't feel awkward on calling her the day after is importante, but kissing is already a nice mental barrier for both of you.

Also, i personally find it okay to spend as much time with her and then call her. If you were drunk or on state or anything and only spent 5 minutes with her but it was long enough to taker her number then it's way better to start with texting.