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Question about sexual confidence lesson...
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Question about sexual confidence lesson...
So I just did lesson 11: Sexual compliments today. But I want to know if I did it right. I approached a girl in the mall and told her that I thought their body was beautiful. I approached another 2 and told them that I think their ass is absolutely beautiful...

They all smiled and said thank you. The one who's body I complimented said it ecstatically.

I want to know whether I did it right, or should I have been more explicit?

like say "Damn your body is beautiful, the things I would do to you"

or "Your ass is amazing, I would make you moan so hard"

Keep in mind that I was at a mall. My biggest fear was getting arrested. I was actually surprised I didn't get arrested at the last lesson. I guess the true lesson is, girls subtlety like it lol.

EDIT: I did lesson 10 and 11 in the same day... and the entire time. I only got ONE true negative reaction. Everything else was either neutral or positive... I wonder what this means...
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06-28-2012 04:14 AM
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RE: Question about sexual confidence lesson...
Sure Mark will chime in here. When I did the sexual compliment exercise I used the word sexy in every compliment I made with a girl. All my reactions were positive apart from one girl who rolled her eyes and walked away. Your compliment had a sexual element so I think thats fine. How did you feel when you gave the girls those compliments ?
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RE: Question about sexual confidence lesson...
I felt fine. It didn't really bother me... I wasn't nervous, but in my head it felt like it was wrong. but then as I saw the positive reactions from girls, I started feeling empowered, and developed a unusual sense of confidence... in that I'm a sexual male, and knowing they they are sexual women. And that its natural to act as such.
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In my humble opinion when you feel in your head its wrong your pushing against old programming which means your doing the right thing.
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RE: Question about sexual confidence lesson...
Yes, that's right. And what Thor said is exactly right, that feeling of it being "wrong" is exactly what you're trying to deprogram.

Very cool to hear this!

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RE: Question about sexual confidence lesson...
i just want to say Thanks for sharing. I'm working on Lessons 10 and 11 now. I going to be honest it has been difficult for me to get the words out.

I'm going out Thursday night (tomorrow) hopefully it will go better.

Cheers
08-09-2012 02:43 AM
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