Question about sexual confidence lesson...

[Thenewguy]

So I just did lesson 11: Sexual compliments today. But I want to know if I did it right. I approached a girl in the mall and told her that I thought their body was beautiful. I approached another 2 and told them that I think their ass is absolutely beautiful...

They all smiled and said thank you. The one who's body I complimented said it ecstatically.

I want to know whether I did it right, or should I have been more explicit?

like say "Damn your body is beautiful, the things I would do to you"

or "Your ass is amazing, I would make you moan so hard"

Keep in mind that I was at a mall. My biggest fear was getting arrested. I was actually surprised I didn't get arrested at the last lesson. I guess the true lesson is, girls subtlety like it lol.

EDIT: I did lesson 10 and 11 in the same day... and the entire time. I only got ONE true negative reaction. Everything else was either neutral or positive... I wonder what this means...

[Thor]

Sure Mark will chime in here. When I did the sexual compliment exercise I used the word sexy in every compliment I made with a girl. All my reactions were positive apart from one girl who rolled her eyes and walked away. Your compliment had a sexual element so I think thats fine. How did you feel when you gave the girls those compliments ?

[Thenewguy]

I felt fine. It didn't really bother me... I wasn't nervous, but in my head it felt like it was wrong. but then as I saw the positive reactions from girls, I started feeling empowered, and developed a unusual sense of confidence... in that I'm a sexual male, and knowing they they are sexual women. And that its natural to act as such.

[Thor]

In my humble opinion when you feel in your head its wrong your pushing against old programming which means your doing the right thing.

[Mark]

Yes, that's right. And what Thor said is exactly right, that feeling of it being "wrong" is exactly what you're trying to deprogram.

Very cool to hear this!

[Victory]

i just want to say Thanks for sharing. I'm working on Lessons 10 and 11 now. I going to be honest it has been difficult for me to get the words out.

I'm going out Thursday night (tomorrow) hopefully it will go better.

Cheers