Post your harsh rejection stories!

[slowhands]

Sometimes its a good exercise to externalize things, separate ourselves from things that have happened to us. Lets do that with rejection!

I'll go first.

Last night went out and was hitting the dancefloor. Was pretty packed and there were a lot of bodies rubbing against each other. This one girl in particular kept backing into and grinding her ass into my crotch. So I thought, okay guess she wants me. I go in for it with a back attack and she immediately freaks out and goes "what the fuck!" and runs off to her friends.

Pretty embarrassing but funny at the same time. That damn cock tease!

I'm sure people have some better ones, please share

[Brian]

slowhands Wrote:Sometimes its a good exercise to externalize things, separate ourselves from things that have happened to us. Lets do that with rejection!

I'll go first.

Last night went out and was hitting the dancefloor. Was pretty packed and there were a lot of bodies rubbing against each other. This one girl in particular kept backing into and grinding her ass into my crotch. So I thought, okay guess she wants me. I go in for it with a back attack and she immediately freaks out and goes "what the fuck!" and runs off to her friends.

Pretty embarrassing but funny at the same time. That damn cock tease!

I'm sure people have some better ones, please share

Eh, not particularly unique. I had that one happen probably multiple times a night when i go raving that it's not special anymore.

Here's mines, these two.

Was at powerplant live 3 years ago in baltimore maryland. Approached this blond trashy girl, point at a christmas tree painting and said, "wont it be awelsome to have a white christmas tree this christmas". She shove her beer can on my face and said "I dont want to talk to you". I became extremely angry, not from the rejection, but the beer can insult on my face, i slap that shit out of her hand and told her to get lost. She brought over this hell angel biker looking dude who's easily 2x my weight. I looked at him for 2 second, deduct that he could kill me in his sleep and split lol.

A more recent one was right after my tennis practice. I've played tennis with my friend for two hours and decided to go to walmart to "day game", looking like shit and smelling like shit. Approach this bitchy asian girl and she said "are you fucking kidding me?". I said cockyly, "you may be pretty on the outside but shit on the inside" and left LOL. She was not please.

But keep in mind i'm not always rude like these to women. If they simply walk away or said "we're not interested", i would've smile and said "pleasure meeting you".

[Arikado]

I've got one.

Back when I was 10, I had a crush on this girl in school. So, early one morning, I wrote her a secret admirer letter. Being not-so-smart, I accidentally wrote my name on it. And instead of writing a new letter, I crossed my name out and left it by her desk. She found it, and every single girl in the 5th grade gathered together to find who wrote it (it was a small school, so each grade had a class). They made all the boys sign their signatures, and compare it to mine. I even tried to fudge mine up to cover my tracks, but it didn't work. I got ripped into so hard, by the entire class, and the entire schoolbus. Kindergardeners were dogging on me.

Best part, her and her best friend sat in front of me on the bus, and the whole time she kept asking me why I did it. I sat there, pulling my hood over my head, and just shut myself off. Needless to say, nothing happened between us. Ironically, the object of my affection and I friended eachother on FB, and she told me she was extremely flattered by my letter, and obviously shy from all the attention it brought her.

It's a cute story, but for the longest time, it really held me back because I was so afraid of being rejected and embarrassing myself.

[Mike]

One time I made strong eye-contact with a girl walking toward me in a bar and I stopped her to open. Her hot friend comes out of nowhere and physically pushes me back. She looks me up and down and laughs and says "there's no way hell YOU have a shot". She then dragged the girl away. There was also a huge pool right next to us and thought about pushing her in, but I didn't haha.

I've gotten quite a few "fuck-offs" and cold shoulders, but these rejections are great, it thickens your skin.

It's funny, because I know I've had a lot of funny rejections, but I can barely remember getting rejected now when I try to think of them.

[Mark]

My worst ones are in Chapter 6. But they've been mentioned elsewhere at times. Drink in my face. A slap. One girl got me thrown out of a bar for talking to her.

Good times.... and by "good" I mean it was absolutely horrifying at the time. But they're pretty funny to look back on now.

[omni]

It's funny. I thought about it the other day, and I've actually gotten rejected a lot more since I've started improving myself with women. I certainly FELT more rejected back in the day when I would wallow in pity about how no one understood me and all women were self-hating shrews. But I actually rarely got rejected because I rarely tried. When I think back on some of my missed opportunities....ouch (there's a good future thread topic).

Anyway, here's my worst (one of them at least). I was at a house party with a few friends. One of them brought a girl he used to date. She was cool so we all got along. So there was a girl there that I wanted to talk to, and I started running my game. Well, I shouldn't have done that in front of my new friend. As soon as I mentioned something flirty (and admittedly quirky and probably a little clumsy), my "friend" let out a loud laugh. Then she said--loud enough for people to hear--"That's your best pick-up line!? Ha!" The chick I was talking to looked half amused, half embarrassed. She walked away and we barely spoke the rest of the night. I had been rejected by proxy.

[Matt T]

Quote:One girl got me thrown out of a bar for talking to her

Were you gaming chicks in Saudi Arabia or something?

[Mark]

lol... no, Texas. So basically the same thing.

[Mike]

Mark Wrote:One girl got me thrown out of a bar for talking to her.

One time I got rejected by gorgeous girl. I kept on approaching and started making out with a different girl in the same bar. The girl who rejected me must have gotten jealous, because she then tried to pull me away from the girl I was making out with and when I wouldn't go with her, she said something to the bouncer and got me and kicked out.

[Lycan]

One time at street carneval in Cologne, I was pretty drunk and "plowing" a set. The girl was annoyed by me and told a group of (6) policemen that I was molesting her.
They put me in a very hurtfull armlock and told me to go home or they would put me in a cell...

[orango]

got rejected by a girl because she said she was not into my "kind"

OUCH