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Picking up girls at parties?
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Picking up girls at parties?
So I've been noticing great improvement in my game lately. However there's an obstacle that's been bothering me: Giant parties.

I'm in Jamaica and the parties here are extremely wild. Was just at one with about 200+ people on a beach. The challenge is standing out. I feel like if I could just get the girl to stay and have a conversation with me, she will get to enjoy me because I'm awesome and different. But I can't show her that since every other guy is trying to talk to these girls so she would just see me as another guy, usually rejecting me on the spot.

Any methods for picking up girls at wild parties and standing out?
07-16-2012 07:10 AM
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RE: Picking up girls at parties?
Maybe you should actually try talking to them first before making assumptions about how they will react to you.
07-16-2012 07:13 AM
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RE: Picking up girls at parties?
How do you think you'll pick up a girl if you don't actually, you know, try to interact with them?
07-16-2012 12:01 PM
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RE: Picking up girls at parties?
Yea man your defeating yourself before you even get in the ring.

Grant me the serenity to accept that some women are uninterested,
Courage to change the ones that are neutral,
And wisdom to know the difference.
07-16-2012 01:15 PM
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RE: Picking up girls at parties?
lol Don't worry guys, I actually tried approaching girls at parties, I actually tested things before I went to the forum. Everything I said was from experience, not from speculation. I just noticed that the way I worded the post made it sound as such, my bad.

It's kind of annoying being rejected early on the spot because I seem like the same guy as everyone else to them. Even though I feel I'm not.
07-17-2012 03:53 AM
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RE: Picking up girls at parties?
Dude, parties are one of the best places to pick up women! Everyone is having fun and usually drinking. Just get loose and see what happens!
07-17-2012 04:00 AM
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