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Meeting women in class/ thanks Mark!
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Meeting women in class/ thanks Mark!
So I was sitting in my math lecture today, its a pretty small class, and I couldn't help but notice this really cute girl sitting like 2 seats away from me. Right after seeing her I made the resolve that I was going to meet her. However soon after I realized that I've never met any of the girls that I've hooked up with in a class before, so this is pretty much new territory for me. I thought about just walking up to her and introducing myself, but then I kept on thinking that I was breaking socials norms by doing that and reducing my chance of a good reaction. I was wondering if anyone has any idea how I should get the ball rolling?

on a side note I wanna thank Mark for models, I'm only on the third level of the models challenge but this past weekend I hooked up with one girl and got a lay with another one in the same day. Luck? maybe, but I like to think models and finally putting myself out there has something to do with it lol.

Grant me the serenity to accept that some women are uninterested,
Courage to change the ones that are neutral,
And wisdom to know the difference.
02-01-2012 09:34 PM
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Don't put so much pressure on yourself to go "all the way." It's a girl in class, you're not going to be banging her behind the desk or anything. Just say hi, and ask a really basic question about the class or something like that. Make your goal to talk to her, not to "pick her up." Worry about picking her up after you've met her.
02-01-2012 09:44 PM
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yeah I agree with Mark, good advice
in class its not full on pickup... its one of the only scenarios that's not straight up PU-- another is an employee at your gym or something if you go a lot
way before all this 'game' stuff I learned to walk out just ahead of the chick so she's walking right behind you. then talk her over your shoulder- almost looks like she's following you... that breaks the ice, introduce yourself too, shake hands. next time talk to her however you want.. no specific angles/positioning
dont know if im allowed to give advice, that was just something I remember that worked well.. way different than stuff I preach today!
02-01-2012 10:07 PM
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Mark Wrote:Don't put so much pressure on yourself to go "all the way." It's a girl in class, you're not going to be banging her behind the desk or anything. Just say hi, and ask a really basic question about the class or something like that. Make your goal to talk to her, not to "pick her up." Worry about picking her up after you've met her.

In college, I find that seduction is a lot more gradual and slow. For example, I'll meet a girl in class, talk to her every once in awhile keeping the conversations light and flirty, and then escalation usually won't happen until I happen to see her at a bar or party or something. Its worked for me in the past, but do you think I should be more proactive about asking girls to hang out? I find it tough in social circles to escalate quickly but maybe its just something I have to work on.
02-02-2012 07:12 PM
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Thanks guys it worked out. today I decided to talk to her after class, complimented her hair and it went pretty good from there. I think I'll gradually get somewhere with her like Pineapple said.

Grant me the serenity to accept that some women are uninterested,
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And wisdom to know the difference.
02-06-2012 09:45 PM
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