Some dude who supposedly had some huge aha-moment which resulted going out with a very step-by-step-method to getting laid now and then to completely getting awesome results wrote this post. I immediately thought about Marks talk about vulnerability, that you should feel free to be as vulnerable as possible which will result in you being none-needy and probably "Putting your personality on the line as much as possible". Am I right with this conclusion? This basicly just Marks theory about vulnerability put in other words, right? If not, correct me.
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Freedom cannot be faked. It's all in your subcommunication on all levels. It's simply a lack of restraint in expressing who you are. The Less restraint you have, the more attractive you are. Your great traits, your bad traits, you dont hide none of them, you fully express them without feeling any restraint from doing so. Final.
Why? Because the lack of restraint in expressing who you are says it all.
You become a DHV by default, always displaying your peacock
Feathers fearlessly.
It's not even who you are that is seductive at all. That is actually quite arbitrary. It matters little if you're a self-help tofu diet tolle guy or A criminally insane warlord. The lack of restraints is what is seductive.
The women always project onto you and rationalize who you are to them anyway
The lack of restraints in expression is the key. You can always adapt new behaviors, grow as a person and evolve into whatever you wish but you have to be walking around with as little Restraint to your expression as possible.
They say routines and such are training wheels. Physical game and beasting is also training wheels. It's not the moves but what the moves communicate about you. Simply put, the awesome results One gets from properly executing routines and physicality are small bursts of the real thing...the real thing being walking around without Restraints. Even things like meditation and being in different kinds of altered states are really just training wheels for actually being unrestrained.
The power of this should never be underestimated. You literally can just sit there with no regard to seduction or getting laid, you don't even have to talk to anyone and the people around you will be inexplicably fascinated by you. You don't even have to be in state. Something about you will give off that stench of freedom and THIS is the seductive thing about you.
This is what makes the best the best. This is what seperates lovers from providers and gives you choice in this realm. This is what seperates guys who always have to chase, put in lots of effort for minimal gains and never have girls chase them or invest from guys Who actually don't have to do much at all. The guy who'll fuck your girlfriend is this guy as is the guy who can just walk off with your girl by doing less than you.
Marks theory of vulnerability with others words, right?
