Making a Quick Move

[Alexander]

In another thread, I saw a poster mention that one of the things that made the biggest difference with women was his developed ability to make a quick move when the opportunity was there.

I've noticed that over and over again, I make a decision to approach a girl, and then do something to "build up my courage". By the time I'm back, and ready to approach, she's often gone. How have you guys dealt with this phenomenon?

[Halo Effect]

So it sounds like you want to walk up to a girl and talk with her, and what actually happens every time is that you DON'T walk up to her and talk with her. Your "building up courage" activity could easily just be a way for you to avoid having to approach the girl.

The solution is simple, easy, and scary. Approach her.

[viridian]

^Yup. The only thing I learned from Mystery Method is the 3-second rule. You have three seconds to approach a girl after seeing her.

Say, "Hi, my name is Alexander" and take it from there. If girls are attracted to you, they'll make it easy for you to seduce them. Keep that in mind.

[TheImptuous]

(08-20-2012 03:54 AM)Alexander Wrote:  I've noticed that over and over again, I make a decision to approach a girl, and then do something to "build up my courage". By the time I'm back, and ready to approach, she's often gone. How have you guys dealt with this phenomenon?

Put one foot in front of the other in her direction. Open your mouth and use it to makes linguistic noises at her. Move with proper body language and make good eye contact. Smile.

[Alexander]

Hahaha - love the simplicity, thanks guys.