Jeremy Soul, Matador, any others like them you know? (Indian success stories)

[Edmond Dantès]

I'm german, can I get american girls without being seen as a Nazi?

(just joking )

Look guys, it is never your skincolour, culture or size of penis that stopps you from approaching and becoming a badass.

It's the subconcious beliefs you have about your race, skincolour, culture or size of penis that blocks you. Nothing else.

I don't care if you're from Africa, India, Asia or the Mars. You absolutely can pull a lot of great women in your life, but therefore do you have to fix your looks, work out and get a decent wardrobe that fits to your style. You have to become an attractive man with a great personality, interests, friends, hobbies, self-confidence,high self-esteem and a way of thinking that supports yourself and encourages you to become your best possible self. And this does not include whining about your race. This way of thinking combined with self-esteem and self-confidence ends in attractive behaviour...

Do you really think that a truly confident black, asian or indian man with selfconfidence and a high self-esteem is whining all the time about his race? Of course not. He is too busy celebrating the life he's living with all the cool friends and all the interesting stuff that happens around him...

[orango]

so today my parents and I were talking and I told them about a friend of mines who is White/Indian mix, my mom said "his dad must be rich because there is no way a white woman is marrying an indian man if he isn't rich", my dad agreed and said unless they are rich, Indian men don't get married to White women

Now I am not saying my parents are representative of all Indian parents but Mark, can you now kinda see where my insecurity comes from?

[Mark]

Of course man. I don't envy you guys. I've worked with tons of Indian guys, have Indian friends and have spent a lot of time in India. I get that you guys grow up with a lot of cultural pressures on you and that often forms really unhealthy beliefs in you guys. I get it. I'm not hating on you.

It's just that it's an explanation, but not an excuse.

[Kunio]

Mark Wrote:Yeah, Ryan was Indian. And he pulled a lot of ass. There's some guy named Magic who is a coach and is Indian (Qwiki Mart accent and all) and he supposedly does really well for himself as well. One of my best friends is Indian, beer gut, and does well for himself. His girlfriend right now is a hot white girl.

I think the point of the thread orango, is that you're making excuses.

Apu from The Simpsons became quite the ladies man before he got married. "Thank you, cum again!"

[orango]

Mark Wrote:Of course man. I don't envy you guys. I've worked with tons of Indian guys, have Indian friends and have spent a lot of time in India. I get that you guys grow up with a lot of cultural pressures on you and that often forms really unhealthy beliefs in you guys. I get it. I'm not hating on you.

It's just that it's an explanation, but not an excuse.

LOL well hay I envy you American guys but I eat all the beef and pork I want if I please. My parents are just really looney.

[Justin]

orango Wrote:so today my parents and I were talking and I told them about a friend of mines who is White/Indian mix, my mom said "his dad must be rich because there is no way a white woman is marrying an indian man if he isn't rich", my dad agreed and said unless they are rich, Indian men don't get married to White women

Now I am not saying my parents are representative of all Indian parents but Mark, can you now kinda see where my insecurity comes from?

uhhh isn't that true for most attractive women?

[Arikado]

Orango, I like you, I think you mean well, but you're breaking my balls.

http://www.nytimes.com/1998/06/09/scienc...all&src=pm

There's been many studies to corroborate that women are attracted to men who are genetically dissimilar to them. I'm sure it goes the same way for us men, hence our obsession with all varieties of women (also due to our drive to have as many offspring as possible).

Point is, if you live in America, you have no reason to complain. Culture-schmulture, people are BIOLOGICALLY attracted to potential mates with different genes, because they will produce healthier children. And this is where race and ethnicity work in your favor. You're Indian. You live in America, you lucky bastard. It's not impossible to hook up with white women. Especially if you know what you're doing and you're an attractive person.

In fact, I'd go so far to say that those women are MOST attracted to you, instinctively. So go for it. Chase after the hottest, blondest, tallest, fucking Scandinavian/Anglo-Saxon women you can find, and, pardon my French, FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF THEM. You have a leg up, whether you realize it or not.

Godspeed, little man.

[orango]

Hard to find Scandinavian women here brah. You get a lot of fake blondes. But hey, I ain't complaining, I am just gonna enjoy life.

[Arikado]

orango Wrote:Hard to find Scandinavian women here brah. You get a lot of fake blondes. But hey, I ain't complaining, I am just gonna enjoy life.

Please tell me you're using that word ironically.

[orango]

Arikado Wrote:Please tell me you're using that word ironically.

I use it a lot brah