Went out last night by myself to a large bar. I called up one of my community wings who was planning on joining me later.
When I walked in I had to break my habit of going straight to the bar to get a drink. Instead I went to talk to the nearest available girl.
I started the conversation by asking them what's good to drink here? We talked about our drinks a little bit. The girl closer to me wasn't giving me much feed back, while the older looking one was giggling a lot. I felt uneasy without a drink so I ejected and went to the bar.
Most of the girls here are in a big group of 4-6 of guys and girls. Finally I made a move on a girl at the fringe of a big group. She asked me if I was part of the big law school party. I said no. Then she said I am a random person in the bar. I told her with a smile, "I am not a random person in the bar, you are the random person in the bar
." I didn't find her that attractive, but she seem to be into me. She left to talk to her friends. Later in the night I ran into her again.
Lone girl at the bar
I approached a tall, cute korean girl at the bar by herself waiting for her friends. The whole conversation felt very flat. I try to tease her a bit, but no emotional response. She struck me as a girl who has never taken her clitoris out of the closet. No sexual energy at all. When her friends returned, they seem to be glad to meet me. They were not as cute. After a bit of politeness, they all took off.
Picked off another lamb
I saw this girl glancing towards me more than once. She was part of a big group also. It took a chance, tapped her on the elbow, and she turned around and happily started talking to me. The guy next her started coming over to talk to me also. She seem engaged, but I couldn't figure out their relationship situation. I knew they are classmates. I excused myself after a while.
Doctor and advertiser
My wing had shown up by now so I didn't feel so lonely during the down time. I approached 2 girls. One was very cute. The other one was doable also. I guessed their profession, and they were pretty engaged for a bit. At some point in the conversation I felt like I was trying too hard to keep the conversation going, and I could see the girls starting to block me out and get into their own conversation. I tried to stick it out a little longer, but it was fading... Next time I am gonna remember to try a RJ routine about girls values. I am not big on routine, but I like ones where it makes the conversation fun, and I learn about the girls at the same time.
I chatted up these 2 girls from New York. They are not super cute, but one of them has something sexy about her. Then my wing came in. His energy was off a bit, and the interaction started to die down. To be fair, I think I was too sensitive about his stumble. I could have done something to keep the energy going.
Girl with boyfriend
I saw a gorgeous brunette sitting in a group, but not talking to anyone. There was a guy standing beside her. I told her she looked board. She laughs. I found out the guy standing next to her is her boyfriend. I joked to them that I could tell they've been going out for a while since they are not talking to each other.
This is by far the best looking group in the bar. Again, big group of 7, 8 guys and girls. I finally found an opportunity to hit on this tall, leggy blond. She was polite, but soon ran off with rest of her girl friends. No bueno.
2 Black chicks
I chatted them up just to be social. I wasn't that into them. Next time though, I want to practice my story telling just for fun. I could have make a lot more out of this interaction.
I joined my wing with an Asian girl and a Latina. Both were kind of thick. My wing talked to the Latina who was pretty funny. The Asian girl was boring so I just said some off hand remarks like having a party back at my place. etc. I joked with her about getting me a drink. I felt bummed out though when they told me I looked drunk. I only had 2 drinks in 3 hours. My me realize that I probably didn't bring my happy face tonight.
I walked up to these 2 girls at the bar. One of them looked up towards me. I smiled and said hi. Somehow I ended up talking to her friend while she started talking to a guy friend. I talked to this therapist chick for a while. I took the conversation a little deeper this time. She looked alright, nice body, but doesn't have a very sexy personality. Eventually I didn't know where to take the conversation. I got her number and hugged her good bye.
Overall it felt like a lack luster night. It's a bit tougher to show up without a wing. I accomplished my goal of approaching the first girl I see, and approaching 10 girls. I was going to practice story telling but never got to it. In that regard I failed because I was too stuck in my head worrying about what the girls think of me instead of just practicing my technique.