Jack Sparrow's Day Game Journal

[Jack Sparrow]

Greetings,

I am new at the forum, but not new to the seduction community. My journal is gonna be a little unusual, but I suspect my situation is not.

About myself - I am Asian, 40 y/o. I discovered the seduction community 7 years ago. Yes, before The Game came out. I've taken boot camps, I've hung out with guys from the community. Unfortunately after all this time, I am not at the level I want to be. I get laid once in a while, and hook up with couple cute blonde girls, so I am not entirely disappointed with myself. Unfortunately my history was that I made too many excuses, given up too often. I would go out for couple month, then not do anything for the next year - work changes, graduate training, family etc. They are all legitimate excuses, but the reality is that I am 40 y/o, and time is running out.

This past 12 months I have dedicated myself to Day Game, and I was just proud of myself for sticking to it.

My statistics from last year -
~ 350 approaches
- 9 dates
- 2 lays

Currently I am seeing one of the girls that I picked up. She is very attractive, cool, and sex is great, and we have an open relationship. I also go on dates regularly with girls that I meet from network events.

Last year I wrote a journal in another forum, and it had helped a lot with my accountability. I am hope this journal will give me a fresh start on the next leg of my development and give me the boost to achieve the dating life that I have dreamed of.

My dating goal
- meet and have sex, casual relationship with young and attractive girls at a regular basis. Maybe 1 new girl a month.
- have a 3 some. (I am ok if I never get one, but I'll be pretty stoked if I do)
- for once just have a Victoria Secret caliber girlfriend.
- after all this is done, I want to look for an intelligent, feminine, sexy, level headed girl and settle down.

This is just what I want. But what I really care about is commitment to my goal of going out and approaching, pushing past my comfort zone, and be happy and proud of who I am.

Onward to my journey!!!

[Zac]

Welcome aboard captain.

[WestGame]

Hey Jack Sparrow,

keep going with the good work.

I do also get Numbers, but they ALL FLAKING, what can I do agains it?

[Jack Sparrow]

@WestGame - I don't have a formula against flaking lol. I think I get 1 date out of 10 numbers that I get. Pretty low percentage, but I try to make it a point of enjoying the process, be efficient with my time. The girl I am seeing right now, I instant dated her for coffee so that always help with building comfort. The other girl I stopped her in the middle of the street, had a 5 minute conversation, and on the first date, I made out with her heavily back at my place. Go figures...


Backing in the game.....

I haven't been approaching much lately, so when I went out to the mall yesterday, I felt a pang of AA. I got 2 approaches in within the first hour, so I was pretty proud of myself. But then I hit a wall.

It was a combination of lost of momentum, AA, and lack of target. Weekends are tough unless you are very comfortable approaching groups and girls walking very fast. The few single girl shopping alone were zipping in and out of stores.

Finally I told myself I was going to approach the next single girl that is stationary. I approached this blond Canadian girl and had a good conversation. Of course she was not alone. Soon her guy friend showed up.

All in all it was not a very efficient day. I was out there for 3 hours and only gotten in 3 approaches.

Today....

I got out of work early today. I decided to go to the bookstore and try a different strategy. I decided to read a book, and get up once in a while to see if there are cute girls to talk to.

I talked to a cute blonde who was a musician. Entertainment girls are always very talkative and friendly, but most of them have boyfriends.

I then talked to a Japanese girl who looked Brazilian. She's leaving the US on Thursday. I experimented with asking her out for a drink tonight. She turned down my offer.

During my down time, I read a chapter of "4 Hour Work Week." I then went to pick up some dinner. I felt very productive today. I got more practice time in talking to girls, and I got some reading done!!!

[Jon]

Hey,

I think you need to focus on quality interactions over quantity. You clearly are approaching, don't beat yourself up about it too much, but it looks like you aren't getting a lot of girls into you.

What age range are you pursuing?

[Jack Sparrow]

I am totally lacking motivation. Maybe it's time to drop the girls I am seeing. It's either desperation or inspiration right?

I went out this past Sunday. I made 5 approaches. The best conversation with a girl was unfortunately interrupted by her boyfriend. The last approach of the day was 2 girl walking. For me that has been the toughest approach - moving groups. One of them is a solid 9, a young Russian model who looks like Maria Sharapova. They blew me off, but hey, at least I went for the hottest girl.

@Jon - Yea, my game is not that smooth right now coz I haven't been approaching. Sure there are days where I am in the zone, and 3 out 4 girls that I approach (as long as they are not walking), I will get into a good conversation and a phone number. But there can be a stretch where I just feel off, and I am picking the wrong girls, and I will approach 20 girls and not get into a decent conversation. I am also approaching girls >10 years younger than me. It definitely will not help my odds, but I want the hottest girls so that's what I am going for.

One of my surfer friend would say - ebb and flow. It's like waiting for a wave. Sometimes they come, sometime they don't, but you just hang out there until the big wave comes and make sure you seize that opportunity.

[Jack Sparrow]

I realize the problem is not that I don't have time. It's the lack of energy - mental energy. It's like I log on this forum, and instead of writing my FR, it's easier to just start browsing other people's posts. I promise myself now that I won't make any posts on other people's thread until I write at least one FR in my journal.

"Take care of your own business before you start minding other people's business."

Follow up from last week....

HB Ballerina - I met her at Target. She enthusiastically gave me her number and made sure I gave her mine. Next day she texted me some long winded message about wanting to meet up. It was Friday, I had plans so I didn't want to meet-up.

This girl is new in town, and I just get the vibe that she just want to meet new people. Right now I am not interested in making new female friends so today I texted her a slightly more aggressive message.

"Hey sexy ballerina! I am free today, let's meet up for a drink!"

I want to make sure there's a sexual undertone if we meet up. Otherwise I rather not waste my time.

She texted back - "Haha, I have plans etc..."

This is all good. I am keeping her on the back burner.

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I got out of work today. It was a nice day so I decided to go to this outdoor mall near by.

HB Weirdo - She said she didn't want to talk. Just for my own sake, I push the conversation for a few more exchange before ejecting.

HB German - She walked passed me with a bunch of shopping bag. I turned around and caught up with her. Once I detected an accent I usually try to guess where she from. I guessed Sweden. I think in the future I am gonna guess something outrageous just to start the interaction in a lighter tone. Like if she's blonde, I guess she from Africa.

Anyway we talked mostly geographical talk. I lived in Germany for a month so it's easy to talk about it. Again, next time I am gonna move the conversation to a more personal level faster.

It sounded like she's only here for a few days with her host family. I really didn't sense a solid close coming so I just let her go.

HB Brooklyn Decker - I saw this blonde walking by me. I turned around and saw her butt and legs in a black yoga tight. Wow! I turned around and caught up with her. She totally jumped when I approached her.

I told her I didn't mean to startle her. I probably interrupted her day dream about all the nice clothes she's gonna buy today Man she gorgeous, just like that SI swimsuit model. she was super nice, but showed me her engagement ring. She kept touching me on the arm while she apologized.

Anyways, looks wise I cannot ask for anymore than this girl. I am happy that someone like her is receptive to my approaches.

Conclusion: I was thinking today that I want to limit the time I spend out approaching. On weekends I may go out for a 2-3 hour session. Plus driving and parking, that may take 5 hours. That's ok. Going to the gym can be a 3 hours ordeal. During the week day I will go out and approach at least 2 days. It really take 1-2 hours more time than running my usual errands any way. So in total that's 7 hours a weekend devoted to approaching women.

I am gonna limit my time, but see if I can increase the number of approaches in this given time. As I said earlier, most people don't lack the time. What they really lack is the energy and the motivation. It really only take 15 more minutes to do my hair, shave, and put on nicer clothes, and I can go to a nice supermarket to approach girls. Instead, I hope in the car in my sweats and flip-flops and go to pickup my Chinese carry-out.

I also want to screen the girls more and really find out if the are potentials for hook up. Or if they are really cool, than I don't mind just hang out for fun, but hopefully still have sex

"The race is not to the swift, but to those who keep on running."

[Jack Sparrow]

I got a number yesterday at Wholefood. I wasn't sure if it was solid. The girl is a Christian. In the future I really should suck it up and arrange for a date right than. I know a lot of girls will still go out with you even if they cannot make up their mind at the spot. At the very least I should ask them if they are free tonight or tomorrow. If they are not, I'll still follow up know that it has a low probability of converting.

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I had a day off today. I spent the whole morning finishing work and swimming. I went to the mall in the afternoon.

Started off well, approaching 2 very good looking girls. The second girl was a college sophomore. She gave me her number, but told me she has a boyfriend.

I kind of lost momentum afterwards. I talked to a super cute blonde and another cute brunette. I than approached a girl at H&M. She was very flattered, but told me she has a boyfriend also.

On my way home, HB Ballerina from last week texted me wanting to meet up. I invited her to this bar/restaurant , and I found out she under 21y/o yikes?? I am going ahead with the meet up. We'll just grab some food. Hopefully she can get in.

Not too much thoughts today. My regular girl that I met earlier this year is finally flaking on me. This might be the end. I actually really liked her and will miss her dearly. She's such a cutie. It's understandable. It's been a 3 month of non-committed relationship. I think a self respecting girl will probably slowly excuse herself out of that.

Signing out.

[Jack Sparrow]

Well I got the Dear John Letter (text) from my primary girl tonight. It's not unexpected. I feel sad. It's good to feel sad. It means that I really cared about someone. I would have totally made her my girlfriend if I was much younger. But at this stage in my life, and on this journey, I really need to explore more in a short period of time.

I am really glad I have met her. It beats a series of emotionless hook ups.

[Jack Sparrow]

I met up with HB Ballerina today. She's less than half my age lol. I really don't know what to do with her. She thought it was funny when I texted her "sexy ballerina".

I know I still don't project enough sexuality. She probably still thinks of me as a friend.

Since she cannot drink, we just had dinner. Unfortunately she ended up sitting across me at the dinner table. There wasn't much physical touching. She's a cool girl though. These days I don't really care too much about "rapid physical escalation". I want to spend more effort connecting with girls. If the relationship becomes physical, then great. If it doesn't, but the girl is super cool, then I'll let it be. Chances are I'll still make a move on her whether she expect it or not.

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As I read my earlier post, I realize I am being a hypocrite. Earlier I said I am not interested in making female friends, but just now I said I am cool with just making connection with girls without physical intimacy. Haha, the truth comes out - I am still not that good with moving girls along a sexual path. Of course I want to have sex with the girl ASAP. Sometimes that path is obvious, but when it's not I start rationalizing that I am cool with just being friend.

I am such a hypocrite. At least I admit it. WTF, I brought a condom to the date, and I am ok with just having a good conversation.....

[baller08]

Hey Jack Sparrow -

Props to you for recognizing the hypocrisy....that self awareness will take you far.

One thing I noticed - here is part of a post you made in another thread....

(05-11-2012 03:50 AM)Jack Sparrow Wrote:  Honestly, with some girls I just want to bang them hard, hear her scream and wake up her roommate, them just blow a load on her face. While many girls I enjoy talking to until late night, then make out, have sex. I am sure there is some unresolved pathology within me that make me want to F the shit out of some girls hard. But at this point I really don't care because it is not all consuming and destroying my life or the lives of the girls.

For guys who always want to bang the crap out of girls, humiliate them, etc. That kind of behavior will get them in trouble. But if it's just an occasional urge with certain types of girls, I think it's alright.

I think I'll shoot for 95% Zan. I just think it'll serve me good. But if once in a while I have the urge to just "bang" a bitch hard and kick her out, I am not gonna be too hard on myself for that.

If I were to take your last post in this thread ("I know I still don't project enough sexuality. She probably still thinks of me as a friend") about HB Ballerina and put it next to the one I just quoted and I took out your name, I think most people would think it was posted by two very different guys. I know that I literally had to go back and double check because I thought I had confused two different posters.

The problem is that your thoughts and actions are not congruent. I think another thread somewhere you talked about having difficulty resisting the urge to brag to your friends about how many girls you banged this year, yet when you're in front of HB Ballerina you behave like a fearful nice guy.

It seems to me you have these extremes and you have yet to learn how to bring them into balance. It's like you yo-yo between trying to be this asshole/player who would like to cum on a woman's face and brag about it to his friends and then in the next breath try to connect with a girl emotionally.

If you want to fuck a woman, then don't be ashamed to display that through your actions and behaviors. You don't know how to express your sexuality without shame and in an attractive way.

I think this is where Mark's book Models really is worth its weight in gold. When he talks about vulnerability, I still have yet to see any guy on here truly get what he is trying to teach. THIS is an example of what he means. You cannot have a part of your sexuality that you can post on a forum but then be ashamed to show a woman.

Just something I noticed that I thought you might want to think about a little bit.

[Jack Sparrow]

Thanks for the feed back Baller. No doubt there is some hesitation in expression of sexuality with certain types of girls. Also the setting was not very conducive to seduction - broad day light, sitting across each other on a dining table. To be honest, most of my seductions revolves at least 2 drinks between me and the girl. It is an uncharted territory, but I just need to stay with it and see what happens.

I am a little drunk right now. I was out by myself. I am gonna write a little FR. I am on a mission to roll solo. It's not a mission really. But I figure, whenever there is an occasion whether non of my friends want to go out, or I just really prefer to go meet some girls, I am gonna roll out solo and see what happens.

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Rolling solo day #1

I had all sorts of excused not to go out by myself. My friends actually invited me out to a lounge 45 minutes away. Realistically I knew I wasn't gonna meet anyone worthwhile 45 minutes away. After surfing the web for 2 hours and really felt out of state I finally said, f-it, took a shower, and rolled out by myself to a nearby bar.

I set a goal to just talk to 4 groups of girls.

While at the bar, waiting fro my drinks, I struck up a conversation with with a fat black girl and her gay friend. They were just good people. Especially the fat black girl. That interaction gave me some confidence to roll on a group of 2 girls. I chatted with the 2 girls for quiet a while. they really wasn't giving me the time of day, but at the same time, I just stuck there without trying for anything, and they would weave in and out of there conversation and include me in their jibber jabber. After a while I decided it was a lost cause, and went to the bar to get a second drink.

I return to my base of the black girl and the gay guy. We chatted some more and got to know each other. I than excused myself and went to the other side of the bar and hit on couple of super hot Blondie. Having done that, I decided it was mission accomplished so I left for another bar.

At the second bar I chatted with couple of groups of girls. All in all they were pretty friendly interactions. Only one group asked me where my friends are. I told them I was by myself, but I think they weren't even paying attention and it went over their head.

I did have the assistant of 3 strong drinks. At one point I really did not care if I stand in the middle of the bar and have everyone see me by myself.

No crazy tail of conquest but the main takeaways point of tonight was that I know I can, without a doubt, go out by myself to meet some attractive woman. I am not saying every week I will feel the dame way. some days I will feel like crap and not talk to anyone. But I know there will be days where I am engaging a number of people.

I have gone out by myself before, but it was usually having one drink or just chat up 1 or 2 groups of people.

At this point in my life, I may or may not be able to land the hottest 22 year old Blondie. But one thing is for sure, I gave it an old school try. That in itself is something I am proud of. It is overcoming these uncomfortable situations that will ultimately build my self confidence.

[Jack Sparrow]

One of my issues is that I get distracted too easily. Some how I stumbled upon GoodLookingLoser's blog, and I started trying screening game. I think it's a good concept, but for now I need to focus on day game.

I went out with 2 guys on Sunday to the mall. I did a good job approaching right away. I made 6 approaches and got 1 number. Even though the girl is texting me back, I am really not that interested.

Yesterday I stopped by the mall on the way to an appointment. Although I did not specifically go out to pick up girls, I told myself, this is going to be my lifestyle. I need to be able to approach whenever. I was dressed in my hoodie, but I made one approach anyway in H & M. I am not into Indian girls at all, but she was one of the most beautiful Indian girl I've met. I felt the conversation stayed superficial and we really didn't get to know each other. Before I got her number, I asked her what her relationship situation is. She never really answered. We'll see if this goes anywhere.

Update: I went out with the 19 y/o last week on our second date. She's average looking, but she put on a dress this time so I became more interested in her. She has nice legs. She brought up the subject of age. I was going to tell her the truth, but when she guessed my age at 26 y/o, all the sudden I couldn't tell her my true age since it was so so far off. Oh well, what can I do.

I still like to see her. We have decent conversations. It's not like I am just killing time so I can have sex with her.

Summery: Not too much to review. I just feel so distracted these days. I need to get more focused. I need to get this part of my life handled.

[Spikes]

(05-24-2012 12:39 AM)Jack Sparrow Wrote:  Update: I went out with the 19 y/o last week on our second date. She's average looking, but she put on a dress this time so I became more interested in her. She has nice legs. She brought up the subject of age. I was going to tell her the truth, but when she guessed my age at 26 y/o, all the sudden I couldn't tell her my true age since it was so so far off. Oh well, what can I do.

I still like to see her. We have decent conversations. It's not like I am just killing time so I can have sex with her.
[b]

you can tell her the truth. Idk if it's a personal thing but I don't know any form of relationships that end well without being honest. Plus if she doesn't feel you because of your age there are literally billions of other girls out there that you can meet. Plus from reading your FR it doesn't seem like you would have much problem finding a new girl. Anyways I see honesty as a sign of your willingness to walk away, which can be attractive. That's just my two cents other than this your FR's are pretty inspirational.

[Jack Sparrow]

Thanks Spike. Of course I don't come from an attitude of abundance that's why I am reluctant to be truthful.

I hate the age question though. James Bond never get asked his age when he's macking on a 21 y/o. Oh well....

I think I am gonna suck it up and push myself to make 10 approaches a week, and write up my results. I am actually scared that I will do worse than last year, but this is the only way I can make myself accountable. If I don't do this, I will just let time slide, and before I know it, I will be a 50 y/o man still lurking pick up forums hahah, SAD.

[coolth]

tremendous respect for what you're doing man..would post an approaching journal of my own one of these days as soon as I do my 13th approach.

[Jon]

(05-25-2012 02:52 AM)Jack Sparrow Wrote:  Thanks Spike. Of course I don't come from an attitude of abundance that's why I am reluctant to be truthful.

I hate the age question though. James Bond never get asked his age when he's macking on a 21 y/o. Oh well....

James Bond is not a real person.

Brutal honesty: based on your goals, it sounds like you are really more focused on trying to live out a fantasy than improve your life in concrete, actionable ways.

You said earlier you are going after the hottest girls, so that means younger women. But now you are going out with an "average looking" 19 year old who you don't sound all that attracted to. Why are you pursuing her, instead of a hot 30 year old, who you would have more in common with and would be more likely to be cool with your age?

[Jack Sparrow]

Ok, starting June I am gonna make 10 approaches a week.

I am gonna just write up the good approaches as I think it will re-enforce positive memories......

HB Blonde - I spotted this hot blonde with huge jugs at Urban Outfitted. I waited for her to stop at a clothing rack, and I approached her direct. She responded very well. She's from out of town here for a bachelorette party. I got here #. I knew she's only here for 2 days, and she hanging out with her girls, so I have a long shot at getting her out. That same night I texted her at 12:30 am, and I was surprised she texted me back. I texted her in an indirect way trying to get her away from her girlfriends at the end of the night hoping for a booty call. After couple of exchanges she did not bite, and I let it go.

HB German Greek - I walked up to a brunette sitting down. She pretty much gave me the Heisman before I finished my sentence. I persisted a little bit, and got into a conversation with her. I then sat down and we talked some more. I really didn't get a great vibe from her. She seemed awkward. She's visiting from German. She doesn't have a working US phone. I just gave her my # and e-mail and said goodbye.

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I am doing Mark's approach program, so the mission is to ask for directions from good looking girls and transition into conversation.

HB coffee Bean - I started out really well asking a girl sitting at Coffee Bean if she gets wifi. It turned into a good conversation. I probably should have invited myself to sit down and find out her relationship situation. I kind of regretted it afterwards because she was quite cute.

There were a couple of non-memorable encounters.

HB Brazil - I asked this cute Brazilians girl for direction. She told me she’s not from here. I asked her where she’s from. We then started a conversation. Eventually 2 big guys that she traveled with showed up. I got her FB contact.

HB Asian - I saw these 2 Asian girls at Zara. I asked them where H&M is. One of the girl started giggling. The other girl didn’t seem interested. I chatted with the giggling girl. We really hit it off, and I got her number.

HB Hottie Married - A while later, outside of Zara I again asked a cute girl where is H&M. We got into a conversation, but I found out she’s married.

All in all it was a great day. I think it’s a good exercise to “throw it out there”, and just to see what girls are like. Most of their reactions have nothing to do with me, and the ones who are receptive I’ll take the interaction further.

[Jack Sparrow]

I haven't been updating my journal. I am doing the approach program so I am just writing up my approaches in one place.

Update:

HB Ballerina - I brought her back to my place couple weeks ago. I kissed her one time, and she got uncomfortable. I don't feel like seeing her again.

Zara girl - We went on a date. She's cute, has nice legs. I like her personality, but she's Christian, doesn't drink. I physically escalated a bit, but she seemed uncomfortable. I texted her next day, and it took her another day to text me back. Anyways, it died off. No further response from her. Very fun, good nature girl, but doesn't seem to want to try anything. No big loss.

I got 5 numbers last week, but for some reason I feel very uncomfortable texting these girls. I finally forced myself to do it today. Only this MILF Korean with hot body responded. We set up a date for this Thursday. The other 4 Caucasian college aged girls never responded.

I think it's a comfort, connection problem. I'll have to spend more time with these girls in the initial meet up. If I can establish more commonality I think I'll have a better chance for meetup with these younger girls.

[The Notorious PhD]

Solid - keep up the good work!

[Spikes]

Yea this is awesome progress!

[Jack Sparrow]

Thanks for the encouragement guys!

Update:

I went out with the Korean MILF on Thursday. We got into a lot of sex talk. She even does pole dancing although she denied being a stripper. Anyways, she dress too fobby for me. I am not gonna call her up again. If she hit's me up, I'll invite her to a bar near my place, and hopefully take her back to my pad.

The following is from my approach program. The goal of the exercise is to make 25 daytime approaches....

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For me this was an ridiculously difficult exercise. I thought I was gonna get it done within 3-4 hours. It took me 6 hours!!! I must have walked at least 10 miles.

After I was done, I went home and soaked my legs in a nice hot tub bath. I mixed myself a strong Gin and Tonic to go with a hearty meal.

I was really proud of myself. For a while I really thought I wasn’t gonna finish, and I was going to just stop at 20. I really hit the wall around 18 approaches. The thing was I got 2 good numbers from my first 12 approaches so my standards got a little higher. I didn’t feel like approaching girls that were less attractive than my 2 number closes.

Anyways, Mark was right. I had bunch or random rationalizations, internal dialogues that delayed my approaches.

In the end, it was really important that I finished what I set out to do. For that, I felt the most proud of myself. Also at one point I felt I had more control over my body language, facial expression, and my speech. It really took a lot of approaches before I can slow motion the interactions, and feel like I can have some control over how I express myself.

My legs are killing me right now. I am gonna go take a pain killer.

[The Notorious PhD]

Mad props, JS!!

I'm on the same section in the Approach program...I only made it to 10...

You've inspired me. I'm gonna get back out there and re-do this shit

[Jack Sparrow]

Thanks PhD for the encouragement.

However, I am still plagued by massive AA. The good part is I am good at following through with what I set out to do. I think I am changing my goal now. Before I set the number of approaches to complete. It was a worthwhile goal at that time, but I ended up just approaching and ejecting just to get the number out of the way.

I really haven't improved much skill wise.

Today I decided to work more on specific skills. The were 2 approaches that I practiced rambling in a way that the girl can relate. I wasn't very good at it, but at least I worked on making a bit of a long winded statement.

I also encounter a common problem. A lot of times I approach walking girls. If they start to pull away, I can feel my mouth forming a stupid, apologetic grin. Invariably the girl hurries off. I am better with girls in stores because I don't feel the anxiety of her walking away. Fortunately I get into better conversations with stationary girls. I still have a lot to work on my conversation skills. Most of my success come from girl who are immediately enamored by a guy complementing her, and I feed off her positive reaction. When a girl reacts really well, it puts me in a good state of mind, and conversation flows easily.

Anyways, I put in a lot of approaches in the last 2 weeks with nothing to show for. For the rest of the month, assuming I can still make sufficient # of approaches, I am really gonna focus on my skill set.

[Jack Sparrow]

I am a little frustrated with day game. I have done about 100 approaches since joining this forum. No lays. I think I could have gotten one if I asked this Asian MILF out again.

I think I really need to work on my skill set instead of banging out 100 approaches and hope to land a hot chick. I have to say after the last 100 approaches, my AA is a bit less. Not a lot less, but a little less. Other slight improvements - I have a little better control of my body language, less quicker hand gestures. Also I am a little better about straying off to useless conversational threads.

I was think of 5 general categories that I can measure my improvements..

1 - Mindset. Do I consistently feel relaxed, sexual, masculine, dominant before I approach a girl and while I am talking to her.

2 - AA. Am I making more approaches in a short amount of time, passing up fewer girls, making fewer excuses not to approach. Am I approaching groups and approaching in a crowded place where by-standers can hear me.

3 - Body language. Am I projecting my personality through my facial expression and vocal tonality? Is my body language consistent with a relaxed, dominant, sexual, masculine guy? Am I using the appropriate tonality is the right situation.

4 - Conversation. Can I consistently and naturally transition from opening to a personal conversation? Can I achieve the following points in a 10 minute conversation...

Meaningful personal connection - elicit and express unique and valuable characteristic about myself and her

Fun, playful interaction

Sexual intent

5 - Closing. Being persuasive about instant date, numbers. Think quick on my feet about instant date possibilities. Have a positive mind frame that the girl wants to see me.

These are just some of the key points I can think of. I am sure there are other one. I think it will be better to measure myself with these qualitative measurements instead of #close rate, day2 rates.


I am gonna take a week off from day game. No approaches unless my impulse just takes over. Next week I am going on vacation, and I will be approaching girls on vacation.