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Is it bad to think about your ex when you jerk off?
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Is it bad to think about your ex when you jerk off?
I know it is kind of a silly question, but I wonder if it prevents you from letting go and moving on...
04-07-2012 09:00 PM
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RE: Is it bad to think about your ex when you jerk off?
I'd say it's a symptom of your inability to let go, not the cause. So if you're trying to move on then there are probably better things to focus on than trying not to fantasize about them, which may be counterproductive anyway.
04-07-2012 10:07 PM
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RE: Is it bad to think about your ex when you jerk off?
I would say yes! Granted, the longer you were with them it is likely that the sex got or was really good so it is a comfort thing. However, you are definitely holding yourself back...been there. Once I made a concious effort to stop I started getting over mine much faster. Good luck!
04-07-2012 11:16 PM
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RE: Is it bad to think about your ex when you jerk off?
Thanks for the feedback guys. This offers me some perspective.
04-08-2012 02:54 AM
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