Improving sex life

[bwong]

So I just recently had this girl break it off with me completely because she wasn't happy with me when we had sex. I had limp dick for whatever reason (even though this girl is beautiful and super attractive). We did end up having sex but she didn't enjoy it at all. Before sex, we had a great connection and rapport. We'd be pretty physical in terms of touching and making out. Eventually I got her to tell me what was wrong (We couldn't turn each other on, she didn't like the way I was touching her, cumming to quickly, etc.) The whole experience irked her and she wanted nothing to do with me physically and said let's be friends. I asked what she wanted and she said "a nice dating and a good fuck" which was pretty much all she was looking for. At first I was distraught, as if this was a huge blow to my confidence. Now I've brushed it off and determined to improve myself in bed.

However, I'm stuck with the question in how I become a better lover in bed? I'm reading the sexgodmethod by Daniel Rose (which apparently has good reviews from everyone) and learning a lot, but of course you can only learn so much by reading. Now what is the best way to actually practice and improve at having better sex with women? Should I try to have sex with as many women as possible (in a genuine way I mean, not just going out and picking up random drunk chicks) or focus on getting a girlfriend and just having sex with one girl? I feel like I have confidence in all other areas of my life to attract women, but I don't want to scare women away with my inability to perform in bed. I've only been in one serious relationship where we had a lot of sex which sometimes was good and other times off. Besides that I haven't had too much experience in sex with other women.

Some feedback in improving my sex life would be great because I want to make sure that I'm well rounded to keep women happy with me. Obviously if I'm going to have sex with a woman I want her to have pleasure as well.

[Halo Effect]

To answer your main question:
You will learn much more about sex when you see the same girl regularly than when you have lots of one night stands.

You could have 'fuck buddies' or a serious relationship, but good sex takes time to develop. Both you and her should feel comfortable enough to 'let go' and be honest about your preferences and fantasies and so on for the sex to be great.

You have to understand that sex is for the most part mental. David Shade (who you should look into as well) says: female sexuality is 100% mental.

In my experience, really awesome sex happens when you figure out what makes a girl tick, what her secret fantasies are, and you then leverage that knowledge to completely mindfuck her. She'll remember you when you make her fantasies come true... (But you won't get that sort of sex the first night.)

[8_Ball]

Read Sex God Method by Daniel Rose.

If you´re not comfortable with your sex game, eat her out until she comes, then fuck her. This way you won´t have that pressure and thinking " I have to make her cum", plus she will come sooner when she had already an orgasm. Lots of women are also addicted of being licked, and they prefer good oral sex (which is really not difficult) over a good fucking.

[bwong]

8_Ball Wrote:Read Sex God Method by Daniel Rose.

If you´re not comfortable with your sex game, eat her out until she comes, then fuck her. This way you won´t have that pressure and thinking " I have to make her cum", plus she will come sooner when she had already an orgasm. Lots of women are also addicted of being licked, and they prefer good oral sex (which is really not difficult) over a good fucking.

I've already stated that I am reading that. I want to know what is the best way to practice that; ie going out and picking up chicks for lays or just getting a serious gf (basically many girls vs one girl).

[8_Ball]

Oops, sorry.

Then I follow Halos and Marks advise (from his ebook): get a girlfriend.

[Brian]

You'll get way more sexual experience from fucking one girl than multiple ONS.

Think about it, if you fuck your fuck buddy 3 times a day for 30 days, that's over 90 sexual experiences. Let's be realistic, none of us have the game nor time to pickup girls multiple times a week lol.

[8_Ball]

Damn, where do you find fuck buddies who are willing to have sex 90 minutes a day for 30 days straight? I wanna, too! lol

[bwong]

Great, thanks for your opinions guys! This is definitely an area where I DONT want to be lacking (although I'm sure it could be said the same for any other guy)

[Heisenberg]

If you look at porn...STOP asap. Cut down on fantasizing and masturbating.
Do Mark's masturbation diet (Once a week with NO PORN)

After a few weeks, call that girl, pick her up and bring her to your bed and ravish her.

I quit all that shit for like a month (hard at first but gets easier). Just to test my will. Then banged a new girl, lasted forever no problem.

She was really happy, going on about how she's going to be all happy for the rest of the day and thanked me multiple times.

[Porno]

1 girl no one night stands. practice. have fun.