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How to hook?
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How to hook?
Well I have been cold approaching here and there but I am unable to hook for some reason. When girls are seated then I can at least tell a story to break the tension but when it comes to girls who are on there way somewhere then it gets difficult. So any advice on this would be great.

Note: hook just means bringing the interaction to the point where the girl enjoys my company and wants to keep talking with me.
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04-11-2012 01:43 AM
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RE: How to hook?
Explain what you mean with "unable to hook" exactly. If you can, give a detailed example of an approach where this happened, and what went wrong and how you would have liked it to go.
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04-11-2012 12:31 PM
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RE: How to hook?
It is always going to be more difficult to get a girl to stop than to get a girl who is not doing anything to tolerate your presence, but yes, more details on what you actually do.
04-11-2012 01:34 PM
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RE: How to hook?
I liked this video a lot. I don't do much day game but I really like the style and if I ever start doing it I perceive Yad advice as being really great although I haven personally tried it directly (some of the things I do naturally when flirting anyway).





The basic theory is simple:
  • Stop the girl.
  • Give her a direct compliment and cold read her.
  • Talk to her, use statements instead of questions, relate and connect.

Its sounds easy and its easy but hard to do. I basically do the same on clubs (except I don't need to stop the girl)... is just the same...
04-11-2012 01:38 PM
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RE: How to hook?
@haloeffect and jon: I am talking about the moment in the interaction where the girl enjoys your company and wants to keep talking to you. With me, most girls just want to walk off mostly because I dont have anything that great to say after I open her with *hey i thought you were cute*. So yeah. I am asking for advice on what should I say or do that would make the girl stay and want to talk to me.
@chaos: That vid is great man. Thanks. I just wish the girls in my area were that friendly lol.
04-11-2012 02:00 PM
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RE: How to hook?
(04-11-2012 02:00 PM)juggernaut92 Wrote:  @haloeffect and jon: I am talking about the moment in the interaction where the girl enjoys your company and wants to keep talking to you. With me, most girls just want to walk off mostly because I dont have anything that great to say after I open her with *hey i thought you were cute*. So yeah. I am asking for advice on what should I say or do that would make the girl stay and want to talk to me.
@chaos: That vid is great man. Thanks. I just wish the girls in my area were that friendly lol.

They are juggernaut, they're just not friendly towards you....YET.

Read this post I made on another thread here, that will help give you an idea of why you're not getting past the "hello" stage: http://postmasculine.com/forum/Thread-Lo...55#pid6955

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04-11-2012 03:05 PM
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RE: How to hook?
Try "You don't look like you're from X" (where X is the city you live in)

That should get you started.
04-11-2012 03:58 PM
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RE: How to hook?
(04-11-2012 01:34 PM)Jon Wrote:  It is always going to be more difficult to get a girl to stop than to get a girl who is not doing anything to tolerate your presence, but yes, more details on what you actually do.

Maybe you're using the word "tolerate" in a different meaning, but if not then this is the worse attitude you can have.

Would you feel like you would be "tolerating" a cute girl's presence if she came up to talk to you?

When I talk to a woman, she is intriqued, excited, having fun, and about to start something terrific with me. What is there to "tolerate"?

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RE: How to hook?
(04-11-2012 02:00 PM)juggernaut92 Wrote:  @haloeffect and jon: I am talking about the moment in the interaction where the girl enjoys your company and wants to keep talking to you. With me, most girls just want to walk off mostly because I dont have anything that great to say after I open her with *hey i thought you were cute*. So yeah. I am asking for advice on what should I say or do that would make the girl stay and want to talk to me.
@chaos: That vid is great man. Thanks. I just wish the girls in my area were that friendly lol.

If you PM me, I can help you write an conversational outline that fits your style if you'd like. I use the same thing and it works wonders for me.
04-11-2012 06:18 PM
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RE: How to hook?
@baller: I will check that out. Thanks
@mark: I was actually thought up of using that a while ago but never did. I would think it would make some decent conversation. Thanks.
@playmaker: alright well I will send you a PM.
04-11-2012 08:03 PM
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