How many times do you have sex with a girl before you eat her out?

[Creatine Dreams]

Not sure about this, but it seems most people have sex with each other before the engage in oral sex.

So how many times do you have sex with a girl before you eat her out?

[Zac]

100% depends on the girl.

[Zelazny]

It kind of depends. I've had girls where it never happened. I've had girls where it happened after a few times, where if it did happen it would be somewhere around the 4-5th time having sex that I'd try something new and wonder how she'd taste. And I've had a few girls where we went so crazy that we'd done about everything in the first night alone.

It kind of depends on the girl, if she's willing to go further than just being fucked, playful and an absolute animal in bed, it happens earlier with me.
But I've always enjoyed oral sex with women, so I might not be a very reliable indicator.

[Creatine Dreams]

Is there a quid pro quo element?

Like if she blows me, would it be expected that I reciprocate?

[Zac]

If I like the girl a lot I lick it. Unless there is a hygiene issue. Then I'm probably not having sex in the first place. Sometimes it just doesn't happen. I don't plan these things, I just go for it if I think it looks like fun. I'm a huge fan of doing it though. It makes them more likely to orgasm in sex. Not all girls want to let you do this with them the first time you have sex, it's very intimate.

[Creatine Dreams]

I guess that next time I am having sex with a girl regularly, I should just go for it and see how she reacts.

[Zac]

Do whatever you are comfortable with. I love giving and receiving pleasure. It's one of my favorite things in the world. What is it that is stopping you from doing it early on? Girls rarely complain.

[Creatine Dreams]

Last time I had the opportunity to do it, the girl would begin foreplay by rubbing her pussy on my dick until I was hard and then we would fuck. Sometimes, she would also blow me and then we would fuck.
I wanted to do it but part of me was worried that I would not be great at it.
The thing I was sort of uncomfortable with was eating her out after I had ejaculated in her pussy.
I think I voiced that concern to her but who knows how she interpreted that.
By the time I decided that I was going to eat her out the next time we had sex, the fling was over.
And yeah, I love giving a woman as much pleasure as I can so next time, I will just take more initiative with the matter.

[Zac]

Quote:I wanted to do it but part of me was worried that I would not be great at it.

Practice.

Quote:The thing I was sort of uncomfortable with was eating her out after I had ejaculated in her pussy.

I would stop ejaculating in women you aren't comfortable giving oral to immediately. Tell me there was a condom involved and I'm confused please.

[Creatine Dreams]

(06-28-2012 12:58 AM)Zac Wrote:  

Quote:I wanted to do it but part of me was worried that I would not be great at it.

Practice.

Quote:The thing I was sort of uncomfortable with was eating her out after I had ejaculated in her pussy.

I would stop ejaculating in women you aren't comfortable giving oral to immediately. Tell me there was a condom involved and I'm confused please.

1. So how do you practice without a woman?

2. It is not that I was not comfortable giving oral to her, it is just that I felt kind of weird doing it after I blew a load in her. You know, the whole tasting my own jizz thing.
There was never a condom involved. The first night we hung out, we got naked and she put my dick in her pussy. I forgot to bring a condom with me and she had no objections to that. After that, we always fucked without a condom.

[Zac]

1. You practice on women. They are all different. Ask them what they like and don't like as you are doing it. Their body will tell you.

2. Wisen up homie. You tryna have a baby with some random girl? Also, if she just throws you up in there the first night odds are she does that a lot. Not that there is anything wrong with sex but seriously. Even IF you end up doing this, don't bust in side of her...

I understand why you did it. I've done it too. But seriously man, think of yourself and your future next time. Is a few moments of pleasure worth the consequences?

[Creatine Dreams]

1. Yeah, I figured you practice on women. I assume getting better at oral sex is similar to getting better at kissing or sex.

2. She was not a random girl. I knew her from school for a little while before we hooked up. And you are right about her probably doing it a lot. She said she was bad about that. Second time we had sex, I asked again if she wanted me to get a condom and she said she was on the pill.

Still, it was probably not the best move regardless, but I took some tests and I am clean.

[Zac]

I mean, do what you want, but I'd just not do that myself. I guess if you know the girl and trust her that's one thing but seriously, babies no bueno. I understand why you'd lose your senses though, it's quite the feeling.

There is a thread on my home group board about a guy who was doing exactly what you are doing. Just paid for half an abortion. Was a really emotional time for him. I don't think you want to be that guy.

[Creatine Dreams]

Yeah, I get it. It is not time for a Creatine Jr. to be running around in this world!

[CHB2]

I would say unless you are in a relationship it is a bad idea to skip the condom - too many emotional issues come up when the possibility of an abortion is brought up. Just keep one with you when you are going out and you won't ever have a problem.

As far as your original question, it really depends how well I know the girl. If it is first night, I may not, but after that I'm all about it (obviously, as long as she is clean and relatively trim down there)

[Chaos]

(06-28-2012 12:11 AM)Creatine Dreams Wrote:  So how many times do you have sex with a girl before you eat her out?

None. I always go down on her the first time with very very few exceptions.

[FirstAidKit]

I think if she's blowing you it's only polite to reciprocate.

[Drewid]

I just had a girl straight up ask me.

Who am I to say no?

[Creatine Dreams]

Lots of good info in this thread. Thanks for the replies!

[don]

personally i like it, so often the first time we have sex, depends on the mood really, no big deal.

hilarious thread, thanks internet.

[Creatine Dreams]

Doing my best to make thought provoking threads!

[Chaos]

One almost universal advice. Take it slow while you're down there, don't rush it and play a lot

[Thor]

Do you guys ask a woman to shave herself before giving her any kind of oral sex ?.

[Halo Effect]

No. But if I'm dating a girl for a longer period of time I'll tell her I prefer it if she shaves. (Most girls do, anyway.)

[SeXyBaCk]

Hmm I don't think i've had sex with any woman that sported an out-of-control bush but I prefer something down there.. not all gone. I'm with Hank Moody on this. Also waxing is much better than shaving due to stubble razing burn etc..... but waxing hurts like hell supposedly and requires going to a beautician which I doubt most women are comfortable with someone else doing stuff to them down there. I don't mind pubes. Hell, I kiss my dogs face and she's hairy and prickly as duck. I dont recall ever going down on a woman and being disturbed by pubes. If your mouth is full of pubes you're working the wrong area. And once more Moody:

"Yo K-Fed, the little man on the boat he's up here, that's where he is, right here." > V <

oh and one more

"I probably won't go down in history, but I will go down on your sister. While I'm down there it might be nice to see a hint of pubis. I'm not talking about a huge 70's playboy bush or anything, just something that reminds me I'm performing cunnalingus on an adult."