How long after sleeping with a girl should you wait to contact her?

[James]

I know this is kind of a stupid question because I should just do what I feel like doing but I'm a little confused.

In the past, I've hooked up with a girl and texted/called soon after and it seemed like that made me come off as needy/clingy. On the other hand, if I wait a long time, it might make me look like a player or someone who doesn't care.

Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

[Trickster]

um, whenever you feel like it? If a girl lets you have sex with her, you can reasonably assume that she'll want to hear back from you sooner rather than later.

[youregettingitwrong]

Trickster pretty much nailed it on the head. And coming from me, a girl, if I don't get contacted by the next day, I think he is not serious about me. You won't come off as needy or clingly.. just polite and as though you care. trust me.

[Jon]

very soon. If she goes home that night - next day. If she leaves in the morning, you can text her later that day. In fact, even if you never expect to see her again, it's still probably the thing to do.

[James]

Thanks. I ended up waiting 2 days. Texted today and she answered showing interest. I guess it's more that I don't know if I should give her space now or if I should ask her out again etc.

If I ask her out again and she isn't looking for anything serious, then it might look like I'm showing too much interest (clingy) but then the opposite could be true as well. Or I could wait till she asks me out. Seems like there are lots of options. I just don't wanna mess it up.

[Mark]

Stop worrying about what she wants and start worrying about what you want.

[Zelazny]

Someone just slept with you. That usually means that there is a high probability of them liking you. Most women I know tend to want to be secure in their feeling that they have not just been used but had a meaningful experience with another person. (Well, unless it was only about the sex, but you should know that by now, did you get to know eachother? Was there a spark?)

I'd personally find it a very decent thing to at least call back or just say hi, let her know that you're still around and that you enjoyed having shared a cool experience together. And no need in waiting man, those games are just for players who are afraid to show their real personality and prefer playing games to build attraction. Again, whatever floats your boat. But just call the girl man