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How and when to show sexual intent?
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How and when to show sexual intent?
So, I'm at the point of where I can have a regular conversation for 30 minutes. How do I convey sexual intent? Physically? Verbally? If Verbally then how? is this the qualifying stage?

Do you transition to the topic of sex? or do you say things like "I really like this about you...", or does teasing in itself show sexual intent?

What is the best way?

Cheers.
02-20-2012 02:38 PM
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How and when to show sexual intent?
If its at night, you should be touching a woman within five minutes, not thirty. You can convey sexual intent through touch, flirting, directly stating your interest, etc.
02-20-2012 03:12 PM
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How and when to show sexual intent?
To switch from asexual to sexual mode you can simply compliment her. Or flirt, or tease. Anything that changes the context from "two people" to "a man and a woman". Talking about sex can also work, if you do it right (and depends a lot on the context).

But I feel like it's a much deeper thing.

Ultimately, I think it's all about being masculine and dominant and sexual. And I think being completely comfortable with your sexuality, and being non-needy, are necessary to be truly masculine and dominant. You can be sexual in a subtle way, with eye contact, body language, intonation. Interestingly, I find that gays and bisexual men can be really awesome at this. I know several that just ooze sexuality. They have this slow, confident, self-amused, indifferent attitude, bordering on being arrogant and provocative, and all of it screams "I'm a sexual being". Not in what they say, but in their body language and voice tone. If you can convey "I am a man. I have a cock. I am sexual . I like to fuck. And I like you. I am attracted to you and I want to fuck you. And I don't give a fuck what you think." in a single look, then you won't have to worry anymore about how to show sexual intent, now do you?

Thing is, most of us here, who come from a nice-guy past, would be terrified to broadcast the message that we are sexual as fuck out into the open. We hide it. We pretend that we are not sexual at all.
02-20-2012 05:51 PM
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How and when to show sexual intent?
Jon Wrote:If its at night, you should be touching a woman within five minutes, not thirty. You can convey sexual intent through touch, flirting, directly stating your interest, etc.
In a club you can make that 5 seconds.
02-20-2012 05:54 PM
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How and when to show sexual intent?
In a club you CAN be sexual within five seconds, and you absolutely should within five minutes, at the very latest.
02-20-2012 06:03 PM
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