House parties vs bars

[Ulysses]

Quick question,

Mark in your book you a fairly direct approach where you escalate quickly, etc. For situations like house parties where you know a number of people, would you recommend scaling things back a bit? For example I find myself talking to one girl, and then leaving to talk to some friends a bit. Is it good to lean back a bit in these situations or just move things forward as quickly as possible as usual? Demographic would be groups of people probably ages 23-28.

[Mark]

You're over-thinking this.

[Ulysses]

Haha okay fair enough, if the guy who wrote a 350 page book on dating says I'm over-thinking things then I probably am. I'll take that to mean that either approach probably wont make much of a difference. Thanks.

[Mark]

Exactly.