Having a relapse of thinking about a girl I have not seen for 4 months.

[Creatine Dreams]

For a while, I was doing pretty well, but I think she has started creeping back into my mind.

I am not too happy about this. I have been keeping active, talking to people, but I think I just miss having a girl to talk to who I like.

It is weird to me how close we used to be for the short time we dated, but now, I have not talked to her for a long time. It almost feels like someone died.

I guess I am just lonely.

[TheImptuous]

The more you repress it, the more it comes out in the end. Other than going the electro-shock route, it's pretty damned difficult to not think about someone, especially someone you were on the same wavelength with. Intimacy's tricky like that. Sometimes you gotta feel those feels to get where you're going.

[SeXyBaCk]

Lack of options Crea. How about you try online dating as well as going out? Just talking to a bunch of women will help a dozen.

[TooFastForLove]

It happens. It is strange how someone can go from being a big part of your life to pretty much non existent almost overnight, but that's often how relationships are unfortunately. Just remember her for the good times you had and keep in mind that if you found this with one girl you can find it again.

[Trickster]

(07-20-2012 02:13 AM)Creatine Dreams Wrote:  For a while, I was doing pretty well, but I think she has started creeping back into my mind.

I am not too happy about this. I have been keeping active, talking to people, but I think I just miss having a girl to talk to who I like.

It is weird to me how close we used to be for the short time we dated, but now, I have not talked to her for a long time. It almost feels like someone died.

I guess I am just lonely.

It happens. Sometimes something just triggers those old feelings randomly. But just keep in mind that it's temporary and that time will eventually wash it away, if you let it.

[Creatine Dreams]

(07-20-2012 07:11 AM)SeXyBaCk Wrote:  Lack of options Crea. How about you try online dating as well as going out? Just talking to a bunch of women will help a dozen.

Yeah, it is definitely lack of options for me. I have been going out and I have been doing the online dating thing. I think the thing is that initially, this girl was really into me and it made it easy for me to date her. Now, when I go out I am just not getting the "it's on" signal that I got from her.

I guess I just gotta plug through this and it will get better. This little relapse is definitely not as bad as how I felt two or three months ago...

[Creatine Dreams]

And now, I will drink and attempt to go hit on women. Let me see how this goes!

[TheImptuous]

(07-21-2012 04:01 AM)Creatine Dreams Wrote:  And now, I will drink and attempt to go hit on women. Let me see how this goes!

It's shit like this that makes me tell people to get into transactional analysis. So like, how'd it go?

[Creatine Dreams]

I did not get laid or make out with women but I did have fun!