Girls Who are Bad Texters

[James]

I've encountered a few girls recently who are bad with texting/phones.

Some of my male friends are like this too, but it seems more confusing with girls.

So it's basically someone who doesn't really care about phones and technology and is kind of proud to not be one of these people who is constantly bound by their phone. With these girls, so far they have been super into me in person but I pick up on this vibe, or maybe they have told me this. So I make sure not to text them much. Then out of nowhere they'll send me some text...either something stating that they're really into me or maybe even asking me why I haven't contacted them in a while. The weird thing is, if I text them out of nowhere, it takes them a long time to answer. So it creates this weird confusion for me.

Like I said, some of my male friends suck at texting/phones but I just understand it. With girls like this, it always makes me wonder if I did something wrong.

Just wondering if you've come across this or any thoughts on the subject. Thanks

[Mark]

Yeah. Some people just suck with phones. Text is a shitty mode of communication. This is why I preach to people to text as little as possible and be as blunt as possible and to also not take any texting too seriously. In my mind, my phone only exists to arrange when I can see a girl again. That's all. Sure, I'll chat back and forth with some of them some times, but I rarely make a point to. And when I do, I keep it short and simple.