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Girl just stands there silently looking at you ?
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Girl just stands there silently looking at you ?
Today I approached a lovely looking english brunette walking down the road. I walked upto her and told her that I find her attractive looking and just had to come and chat to her. She stood there and began gazing into my eyes. I asked her what she was upto today. She said she had been out shopping. We talked alittle about shopping, then I said to her lets grab a coffee right now. She replied "I cant I have to meet friends now". The funny thing is she remained rooted to the spot and just kept looking into my eyes.

I then asked her where she was from we talked alittle about where we were from minutes went by. Then I asked her again lets grab coffee round the corner but she gave me the same reply "I cant I have to meet friends".

Heres me thinking why the hell are you still standing there then ?. Continued to talk to her she wouldnt break eye contact. So I paused for a few seconds and maintained eye contact with her she held it strongly.

Then I said to her "ok well lets grab a coffee another time" she replied I cant do that". She continued looking strongly into my eyes I could feel her gaze it was so strong.

In the end I said to her "you better go and meet your friends have a nice day" and I moved on.

How would you deal with a situation when a girl appears to be into you but doesnt respond to your suggestions ?
06-19-2012 06:56 PM
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RE: Girl just stands there silently looking at you ?
I would have kissed her.

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06-19-2012 07:07 PM
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RE: Girl just stands there silently looking at you ?
Jezuzz Mark I was thinking the same thing as you but I hesitated and never went for a kiss.
(06-19-2012 07:07 PM)Mark Wrote:  I would have kissed her.
06-19-2012 07:57 PM
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RE: Girl just stands there silently looking at you ?
That's some nice shyness right there.
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RE: Girl just stands there silently looking at you ?
Not sure about the kissing, but I'd try to intensify physical contact. If she freezes she might be afraid or shy, but if she allows the contact and and you can test for compliance. I'd probably just put my arm around her and walk her to another spot. Maybe kiss then Wink
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RE: Girl just stands there silently looking at you ?
If her staring was because she was nervous/shy, then obviously wouldn't have kissed her. But the way you wrote it, she seemed to be very calm and in a very sexual state. I would have just gone for it. Why screw around? I think moving her or "escalating" would be a waste of time in this situation. She was obviously sub-communicating that she didn't want to beat around the bush. You went direct on her verbally, from the sounds of it, she was waiting for you to follow through.

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