Freiheitlich Daygame Adventures

[freiheitlich]

Time:
Today, Direct daygame from 2pm to 6pm (4h), alone.

Activities:
I was tired and bad in mood. I aproached only one girl, she respond after the opener, that he has a boyfriend. I talked with her for some minutes and leave

Results:
None

[Paul]

How did you manage to only talk to one girl in the course of 4 hours? What were you doing all that time?

[juggernaut92]

Wow. I feel your pain brother. I use to go out for hours at a time and not even do a single approach. Daygame is hard because you don't gain momentum and also you can get stuck inside your own head very often.

To warm up just ask women for what the time is and if you are gaming in a mall then talk to some of the storeclerks just to get in a talkative mood.

[crazyhorse]

lol 4 hours outside? haha.

Frankly, I don't really like hitting the streets solely for hitting on girls. It's great to do during your everyday activities, but that's it.

Why don't you do go out at night instead? I mean face it, it's way easier to spend 4 hours in a club then walking around in a city.

Also how is the no porn challenge going?

[playmaker001]

Yeah, I used to go out for hours at a time and not hit on a single girl. Looking back, it was because I had approach anxiety, and it's not even as if it was severe. But, it was just enough to hold me back from approaching. It seems to me you still have approach anxiety brother. I'd do Mark's approach program if I were you. Also, there's something more that I'm not seeing because I haven't watched you run game personally. 500 approaches is a lot to have 5 dates and no lays. Describe your game to me honestly. How do you approach? How do the women react to your approach? Describe your looks? Describe what happens on your dates? Tell me what you do before you get the number and how you get the women on dates? This should let me know a little more about you. Try to be as sincere as possible.

[freiheitlich]

Hello friend,

no I have no AA, I often approach in this time frame 4-5 girls. But on this day I was tired and without motivation. I use the Mark Daygame Model

- Direct Opener
- Normal Conversation (Small Talk)
- Close

[freiheitlich]

Time:
Today, Direct daygame from 4pm to 6pm (3h), alone.

Activities:
I approached 3 girls. The first girl was very in rush, i talked with her just few minutes. Then she said she have to leave and she give me the boyfriend statemend. The second girl was unfortunatly a lesbian, I talked with her for few minutes and leave. The third leave after the opener, but she was not attractive for me, no big deal.

Results:
None, but Who Cares?

[freiheitlich]

Time:
Today, Direct daygame from 4pm to 5pm (1h), alone.

Activities:
I did not find any attractive girl, that was worth to aproach.

Results:
None

[SeXyBaCk]

Where are you in Germany? Find it hard to believe you can walk around town for an hour and not see one attractive girl. Aren't you in town? Go hang out around the university area or outside of H&M/Zara or some other fashion store.

[Jon]

freiheitlich,

do you get girls numbers and get flakes, or are you not getting numbers?

[freiheitlich]

Hey,

I do get Numbers, 2 from 10 that I approach confirm to go for date with me. But they all flakes one day later.

I think because they realize that they do not reallly know me.

[Halo Effect]

I think it would be extremely useful for you if you get a more experienced man to watch while you approach. You might be doing little things wrong, like body language or conversational style or voice tone, that mess up your results.

Any Germans in here?

[Alvar]

(04-18-2012 07:15 AM)freiheitlich Wrote:  I do get Numbers, 2 from 10 that I approach confirm to go for date with me. But they all flakes one day later.

I think because they realize that they do not reallly know me.

Mind if I ask, but what do you have going on your life? Do you work or study and what other hobbies do you have other than chasing tail during the day?

[freiheitlich]

Time:
Today, Direct daygame from 4pm to 5pm (1h), alone.

Activities:
I was tired and did not approch any, although I did saw some attractive girls, maybe tomorrow I do have more luck

Results:
None

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(04-18-2012 11:38 AM)Alvar Wrote:  

(04-18-2012 07:15 AM)freiheitlich Wrote:  I do get Numbers, 2 from 10 that I approach confirm to go for date with me. But they all flakes one day later.

I think because they realize that they do not reallly know me.

Mind if I ask, but what do you have going on your life? Do you work or study and what other hobbies do you have other than chasing tail during the day?

Do not worry, I do have a lof other business as well.

[trader4life]

To me it seems there are two ways of looking at this: Some might say that going out JUST to approach or do daygame or whatever is going after what you want and being a man, etc. Some might say it is because you are changing your normal course of events (i.e. instead improving yourself in some way or just doing something that YOU enjoy doing) JUST to get numbers, dates, lays. I subscribe to the latter of the two. Sure, if you are out and about and happen to see 10 women that you find attractive and you approach that seems normal and logical, but possibly they can sense that you are JUST trying to get girls.

[Zelazny]

I have to admit I'm curious to how you run daygame Freiheitlich. Could I persuade you to be a bit more descriptive in your attempts? I'm somewhat new at day game and would like to see how others go at it to gain more insight.

[freiheitlich]

Yo Zelazny,

I approach with direct opener and then Communicate with her.

There are not special, just a normal conversation, like Mark always say.

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(04-18-2012 07:02 PM)trader4life Wrote:  To me it seems there are two ways of looking at this: Some might say that going out JUST to approach or do daygame or whatever is going after what you want and being a man, etc. Some might say it is because you are changing your normal course of events (i.e. instead improving yourself in some way or just doing something that YOU enjoy doing) JUST to get numbers, dates, lays. I subscribe to the latter of the two. Sure, if you are out and about and happen to see 10 women that you find attractive and you approach that seems normal and logical, but possibly they can sense that you are JUST trying to get girls.

I do not think that this has this negativ effect on my game

[Alvar]

(04-18-2012 04:39 PM)freiheitlich Wrote:  Do not worry, I do have a lof other business as well.

Just wondering how important would be for you to get a lay from day game and what that means in the grand scheme of things. Are you pursuing other, more important, goals in your life? Are you getting laid from bars or social circle?

You clearly have committed a lot of your time, will and energy in making this work for you. You're highly invested in using a girl's body to validate yourself. If, right now, getting into some random girl's vagina is the most meaningful thing in your life, don't be surprised when women pick on your vibe and are turned off.

[playmaker001]

I don't know man, you might be unattractive and awkward. If you're neither of those stop going out 3 hours a day and focus more on demographics. Find some hobbies you're interested in and meet like minded women there (dance classes, or whatever you're interested in). Go to coffee shops, bookstores, clubs, and other places where chicks are more receptive. You'll be able to pull girls that way. Think of it as finding your "sweet spot" on the basketball court. You're tiring yourself out man, I can sense it in your posts. Just work on demographics for now, trust me.

[Jon]

You should answer the question with some more detail

(04-18-2012 04:39 PM)freiheitlich Wrote:  Time:
Today, Direct daygame from 4pm to 5pm (1h), alone.

Activities:
I was tired and did not approch any, although I did saw some attractive girls, maybe tomorrow I do have more luck

Results:
None

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(04-18-2012 11:38 AM)Alvar Wrote:  

(04-18-2012 07:15 AM)freiheitlich Wrote:  I do get Numbers, 2 from 10 that I approach confirm to go for date with me. But they all flakes one day later.

I think because they realize that they do not reallly know me.

Mind if I ask, but what do you have going on your life? Do you work or study and what other hobbies do you have other than chasing tail during the day?

Do not worry, I do have a lof other business as well.

[freiheitlich]

(04-19-2012 01:20 PM)Alvar Wrote:  

(04-18-2012 04:39 PM)freiheitlich Wrote:  Do not worry, I do have a lof other business as well.

Just wondering how important would be for you to get a lay from day game and what that means in the grand scheme of things. Are you pursuing other, more important, goals in your life? Are you getting laid from bars or social circle?

You clearly have committed a lot of your time, will and energy in making this work for you. You're highly invested in using a girl's body to validate yourself. If, right now, getting into some random girl's vagina is the most meaningful thing in your life, don't be surprised when women pick on your vibe and are turned off.

No you are complete wrong. I just want a girlfriend.

[playmaker001]

well then follow my advice.

[Schmechti]

It's that "desperate vibe" women can sense. However, when you approach a woman direct, you already make clear that you want to get to know her. That's your true intention. In this case it's difficult to not be at least a bit desperate. On the other side, it could be that she is boring or not compatible with you. So, when you approach her, it's just your first impression. Often I make direct approaches and leave her after only one or two minutes, because she has nothing to return (lack of attraction, she's boring, she doesn't know how to deal with the situation, etc.).

[freiheitlich]

Today Activities

I was looking for attractive girls infield, like yesterday too.
I approached no one. Because yesterday i had no desire for girls, today i was to tired.
I saw today two attractive girls, but i had no energy to approach them.
Be carefull of your sleep habit, sleep well, then game hard

Results
None

[Zelazny]

Freiheitlich, am I correct in my assumption that this thread is there to be more of a log than a discussion? Because it is rather low on information for us to learn from it. I don't mind, but I'm trying to figure out what the intent behind the posts is.