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[First Post] The magical moment does not exist
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[First Post] The magical moment does not exist
Hey guys!

Finished marks book recently and it blew my god damn mind. The idea that vulnerability is the root of all our issues... so much truth. That's the holy grail.

Anyway, today I tried kicking a pigeon and a girl next to me laughed so I ended up talking to her as we walked. Got her number but her responses are slow so I doubt it'll go anywhere.

Point is, this specific approach made me realize there's no spectacular event which will cause me to be successful with women. No peak experience.

The magical moment does not exist.

In the back of my head I always think "one day I'll be good with women and a better person" but it's not really something you get or achieve. It's within me. It's within you. You just have to open yourself up and be vulnerable (derp rehashing marks book lol).

Yea so, this is a pretty happy epiphany.

P.S. I wore a new shirt + tie today and holy shit, dressing well makes a difference.
05-06-2012 09:18 PM
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RE: [First Post] The magical moment does not exist
Don't kick animals man. You can shoo them off by clapping or something. There's a correlation between children abusing animals and and violent crime committed later in their lives.

I'm still hoping the magical moment for people is actually when they realise they've found mutual love as sappy as it may sound - even if it's fleeting.
05-07-2012 08:45 AM
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lol I was by no means trying to abuse the pigeon.
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Good, I didn't want to have to come over there and kick your ass now.
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05-07-2012 08:33 PM
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You lost an edge there in your history, in any PUA forum this would have to be titled "the amazing kick the pigeon opener".
05-08-2012 12:29 AM
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^^^ Lmao you have to field test it first with more girls
Grant me the serenity to accept that some women are uninterested,
Courage to change the ones that are neutral,
And wisdom to know the difference.
05-08-2012 12:34 AM
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Carrying a pigeon with you at all times provides the double benefit of having an excellent opener ready as well as being a cool unmatched peacock...
05-08-2012 12:37 AM
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There are guys who spend years and years and never understand this.

Quote:Point is, this specific approach made me realize there's no spectacular event which will cause me to be successful with women. No peak experience.

The magical moment does not exist.

Best first post ever on this forum?
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Yeah, I had the same feeling about the post. I would say we have a winner for first post so far Smile
05-08-2012 08:18 AM
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(05-08-2012 08:18 AM)Chaos Wrote:  Yeah, I had the same feeling about the post. I would say we have a winner for first post so far Smile

Do I get a bronze pigeon as a trophy?
05-14-2012 05:32 PM
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