Fear/discomfort/Nervousness towards the type of women you like but have sucked with

[Reesays]

It seems that my success with women has gone up significantly than when I first came here. Girls even talk to me now before I talk to them.

Yet, living in the bible belt for 10 years leaves a man scarred. One day I plan to live in California and travel to Europe (particularly Sweden). Due to endless brainwashing as a kid (playboy, TV, etc.), I ended up growing an excessively strong attraction to Blonde females.

When I hit the age 16, that attraction went away. Now at the age of 19, it is coming back slowly, I can feel it coming back too which sucks because it seems that in my many approaches, I do well with all kinds of women except blondes and I don't even act differently towards them.

Then again I live in the south where Blondes are the prime example of beauty.

Type of guys all of them down here go for? White Brunette men.

I have never seen, heard of, or ever known an Indian guy in the history of Indian people to even date or marry one.

How does it affect my approach?

Didn't before, these days it does a lot. Before I can even say a word to one I back away.

About 2 minutes ago (in library right now), these 2 blondes were sitting at another table. I was posting on facebook and when I looked up I made eye contact with one. She smiled and I just put my head down and went back to work with a look of "WTF did I just do" on my face.

Well they are still there but now they are back to doing their work. I feel so, NOT ME when I am around them.

I try to avoid them, I try not to get near them, I try to ignore them, and everything like that due to having bad experiences with them as a kid. How do I overcome?

[baller08]

(04-19-2012 09:50 PM)Reesays Wrote:  I can promise one thing, the next thread I make will not be about me whining about say Blondes or whining about how I cannot get laid. If it is, then you can hold me accountable ON THAT.

But I'll answer your question anyway. How do you overcome?

Get to the point where you can have sex and relationships with attractive women who are not blonde, on a consistent basis. Once you do that, I'll tell you exactly how to get blondes. I'm not being sarcastic. Once you can do the first part, I'll tell you how to do the second.

[IdEngager]

(05-02-2012 10:33 PM)Reesays Wrote:  I do well with all kinds of women except blondes and I don't even act differently towards them.

Quote:She smiled and I just put my head down and went back to work with a look of "WTF did I just do" on my face.

I think you just contradicted yourself there.

[baller08]

(05-02-2012 10:33 PM)Reesays Wrote:  Before I can even say a word to one I back away.

I feel so, NOT ME when I am around them.

I try to avoid them, I try not to get near them, I try to ignore them...

I'm going to give you the same advice you gave Seele so effortlessly and easily:

(05-03-2012 01:21 PM)Reesays Wrote:  you don't have to be a complete a** to get laid, you can be a nice guy, just don't be a pushover