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Day Game - Why are most closes Foreign Girls and not Local Girls?  
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Day Game - Why are most closes Foreign Girls and not Local Girls?  
The vast majority of day game closes I've seen have been:

1) local guys going after foreign girls without an established large social circle
2) foreign guys going after local girls and playing up their exotic card

krauserpua.com is one example.
sashapua.com is another example.
daygame.com (Yad and Yosha) is a third example

IMO girls with established social circles are generally much harder to bag than those without. Many of my lays have been girls who had limited social exposure (perhaps had only one or two friends) or didn't have friends at all. These were cool chicks, but for one reason or another, they just didn't seem to have friends.

I've only once laid a super popular chick with tons of friends and that was (unsurprisingly) ? through a social circle! I've found that it's next to impossible to lay Facebook junkies with thousands of friends if no one is vouching for you? Just forget about it.

Also, it's always easier to lay foreign chicks than locals, especially if you're a local yourself. When one of you is foreign or when she is in a foreign environment, a lot of social rules as to what is acceptable and what isn't tend to go out the window. This is why expats find it easier to get laid no matter where they are, why European guys get laid more in the US, why American guys get laid more in Europe etc. It's the foreign factor. Some of the most successful players are guys who target a certain foreign demographic or move abroad themselves.

My opinion is that you need much more "alpha capital" to lay a local chick if you're a local yourself, whereas a foreign guy can get away with a lot of shortcomings because they either get lost in translation or they are purposely overlooked.

I'm interested in the input of the forum on this.
(This post was last modified: 04-21-2012 05:12 PM by Mace.)
04-21-2012 05:11 PM
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RE: Day Game - Why are most closes Foreign Girls and not Local Girls?  
In London most of the girls are actually foreign. You get lots of girls who come to London every year to learn english, make a career etc. As you rightly say some of these girls dont know anyone in the UK and are happy to give their number or go on a date with someone who takes an interest in them.

English women who live in London already have an estabilished social circle. There social circle allows them to meet guys. So it makes sense why would she invest time in a guy who approaches her on the street when she already has plenty of options in in her social circle ?.

I have had countless phone numbers from english girls when colding approaching them but never managed to get dates with them whereas when it came to meeting girls from outside the UK they are happy to give me opportunity to meet them.
04-21-2012 05:21 PM
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RE: Day Game - Why are most closes Foreign Girls and not Local Girls?  
It depends where you are. Larger cities like New York or London will probably have a lot more foreigners and tourists. When I go out during the day (In Boston) I tend to meet a lot of girls who are local or go to college there.

I'm American and lived in Europe for a while and it was easier for me to get laid in the US.

The problem with thinking like this, is we're generalizing way too much and is probably not healthy to categorize people this way. Rather than saying you need to be a foreigner or local, it's better to just learn how to relate to women in an attractive way.
04-21-2012 05:22 PM
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RE: Day Game - Why are most closes Foreign Girls and not Local Girls?  
Your perspective is probably true, but the overall perspective is not as skewed as you make it out to be.

The girl I am seeing now from day game has lots of friends, is totally Americanized. She happened to just got out of a very long term relationship, and I showed up out of no where and provide an interesting exciting break from her old life.

I've also gone on dates with very cute girls who are just too busy with work and never thought about their dating life. Unfortunately, after couple of dates they tell me they are focused on their career right now, and do not have time to pursue relationship.

I also find that I meet the most wonderful girls through direct day game. They are just great girls who grew up in a loving environment, therefore they are open and trusting of strangers. They accept your intention whole-heartily without suspicions or paranoia like the more insecure girls.

You also neglected the whole college day game. There are college aged guys who do day game on college campuses. Most of those don't involve foreigner.

I think there are many reasons why a girl will or will not go out with a stranger. The foreigner angle is definitely one of the bigger demographic.

The bigger question for each of us personally is - can I meet the type of girl I want through cold approach day game? If you don't think you can, than you better start developing other angles of meeting women.
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RE: Day Game - Why are most closes Foreign Girls and not Local Girls?  
Check out Alex Coulson's stuff on Youtube. I don't think he approaches any foreign girls.
04-22-2012 12:37 AM
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