College differences in dating?

[Thenewguy]

Ok, I understand Models. The concepts, ideas, and I also agree with them.

One thing that confuses me is that, I know that I should stay aggressive in talking to girls, and do what comes to mind when talking to them to stay linked to my personality... And if they like me, cool, if they don't, it's whatever, there's always people that will and there's always other girls and you cant make people like you. I understand and agree with that.

But in an environment where you see the same people everyday, shouldn't you take some precautions and hold back a bit on doing certain things as there's a bigger risk factor in the sense that if you mess up with one girl, it could spread to her friends, and also there being one less pretty girl in a small pool of females to select from?

[Spikes]

YES!!! I've been wondering this too. Like does the whole approaching a lot of girls thing apply to us college guys? and how about college bars where its possible your going to run into the same girl again or if you fail hard she tells her friends about you and you get this reputation that ruins things with other girls? I wondered about this about the whole fraternity having socials with other soroties too where you end up having socials with the same sororities over the years isn't it more dangerous to mess up with those girls?

[Todd1]

http://postmasculine.com/how-to-pick-up-...in-college

Basically just be friendly and meet people. Having a lot a friends is HUGE as it introduces you to tons of girls. Save actually gaming girls until you're at parties.

[Thenewguy]

yea but that was in 2008...I feel like Mark's posts changed significantly in nature after 2010...They seem more down to earth...So I'm just making sure.

[Mark]

Yeah, it pretty much holds up. College is all about social circles, networking, building up a strong network of friends, activities and parties to go to. Once you've got that foundation in place, meeting, gaming and hooking up with girls becomes fairly straightforward and easy.

NOTE: All old articles on the site are articles that I still find relevant and useful. Articles from 2007-2010 that I thought were irrelevant or not useful were left behind on the old sites.

[Thenewguy]

Ok cool. But if you're making an effort to be friends with everybody, what if the time you actually DO decide to go aggressive and start flirting-with-intent with a girl but she put you in the friend zone because you took so long and she went from neutral to unreceptive? (Using jargon from Mark's book) When should I pull the trigger so to speak?

[Alvar]

Get Man on campus with 79% off... lol Mark, your past is coming to haunt you

Aren't you selling this product here?

[Garriors]

[Inferiority-complex crap about wanting to be a college athlete to get girls or something]

[race trolling]

End of discussion

[Mark]

Oh boy, not only do we have another race troll... but he's a "college athlete" troll too. Consider this your first official warning Garriors. My tolerance for the kind of garbage advice in your post has really dropped to nothing.

Thenewguy: You're thinking about it too hard. You're not becoming BFF's with all of these people, you're just networking. Then just escalate in college situations.

[Schmechti]

I think in college and at work in general, attraction is not so important like in daygame or nightgame. Just seeing the same girl every day gives you the opportunity to connect with her. By doing this you can build trust over a long period of time. I don't think many couples at the college get together because they feel immediate sexual attraction for each other. I think it is mainly because of trust which grows automatically just by spending a lot of time together.

Correct me if I'm wrong, Mark.

[Thenewguy]

I understand. Thanks guys.