Challenging a woman ?

[Thor]

What does challenging a woman actually mean to you guys ? how does one go about this in conversation ?

Thanks

[baller08]

Loaded question dude because it's not about the method but about the intent. There are many ways to be challenging to a woman or rather convey challenge so that it'll be fun for her to chase. This is one of those things that won't be explained well over a forum and that you have to see it and experience it in person.

The basic idea is that there are two ways to be challenging.

The first way is through your actual life. George Clooney does not have to actually say anything to be challenging because his life speaks for him, the amount of women he gets speaks for him. This is the core of Post Masculine and what Mark is trying to help you guys build. If your life is full of women but focused on anything but women....women that you meet will immediately sense you are someone they need to pursue to get. They won't flake, they won't test you much, they'll make going out with them quite easy (ie: they won't be busy and everyone in their family is miraculously healthy), they'll be on their best behavior because they know your life is too full to care.

The first way is the best way but difficult and most guys won't take the time to get there. The guys who take the time to get there can pretty much forget every dating skill or tool they've ever learned and it won't matter....women will still find them sexy and attractive.

The second way is through banter and words that men can learn and I'm a big supporter of it as a training wheel. So long as men do this but work on achieving the first way of being challenging then it's fine, it's just that most guys want the quick fix and just rely on the second way and eventually they run out of steam.

If you achieve the first way of being challenging then you automatically communicate in the second way too, it's just unconscious and you don't have to think about it at all.

If you give me a few lines from emails, texts, or conversations you've had with women, I'll give you some examples of the second way.