A small theory

[Jon]

When I set up first dates, I usually text by suggesting a pretty small wine or cocktail bar that almost nobody has been to. This leads to two reactions

1) tell me how to get there
or
2) I just googled it. Sounds good.

response type 2 is a good sign, response type one, not so good.

[Leo]

over-analyzing? Well yeah, #2 sounds more invested than #1 but what it's important is if she shows up

[Jon]

haha, I just got the "where is it" text and thought "fuck, she's gonna be high maintenance." She'll show.

[Mark]

It's one of those things that could mean something, but it's so impossible to know that it's probably not worth thinking about. What if she's out walking around and not by a computer? Or if she has plans beforehand and needs to know if she can make it on time, etc., etc., etc. Or if she's just technology retarded and hasn't figured out how to google maps yet (I've seen it happen)?

[Jon]

Yeah, I suppose so. I mostly have been getting an across the board high maintenance vibe from this girl from the outset. I think this is one of those "she's hot enough to get away with anything" situations.