This must be one of the funniest things that have ever happened to me in all the time I've been in the game... and it does not have to do with a woman.
A couple of weekends ago I was out with a couple of friends who had started in the game about six month ago or something like that.
There weren't that many attractive girls to be seen so somehow the mood sunk a little. Anyway we ended up talking to some ugly girls and even a couple of nice girls who just weren't interested. Anyway I had fun, had a couple of laughs and overall had a decent fun night... not one of the best, but pretty decent anyway. The nice girls were really sweet and tender, you could tell they weren't interesting in anything with anyone right away, and they made it quite clear throughout the night without me seeing them being harsh a single time...
So in the way back he was all about how the "perfect opener" and the "right routines" can get you any girl, no matter what while I was trying to explain him that some times they are just NOT interested, no matter what, and that does not reflect on you, on who you are or anything like that... you just can't win every game, there are some girls you can't get and that does not matter...
So he looks into my eyes, very seriously (and a little drunk) and says:
- (he) You've changed, you're not the same...
- (me) What do you mean?
- (he) 6 month ago you would have rip apart the place
- (me) Yeah, maybe, but I really didn't see anything that picked my interest except that two, and frankly I wasn't willing to put the effort for anyone else there
- (he) You're not the same, you've lost your touch... if you don't get the pretty ones then you go for the next... the goal is the close after all.
And finally he was pissing me off... as it happens, although I've been looking for a LTR for some time, I just had recently being on several one night stands so I answered, maybe a little harsh...
- Oh... I assure you I fuck more than enough often enough
And his final answer, which actually left me completely wordless was:
Maybe that's the problem
And there I was, wondering when being laid had become the problem instead of the goal...
