What Is Postmasculine?

“Life shrinks and expands in proportion to one’s courage.”
  - Anais Nin

What if you could attract more women through sheer honesty? Become richer by owning less? Defeat your insecurities by telling your friends about them? Develop confidence by caring about the result more? Gain more respect by being more vulnerable? Accomplish more by doing less?

Postmasculine is unconventional. It’s a radical form of self improvement for men. Our metrics for success are not sex, money, status or good looks. Our metrics are happiness, growth, and significance. Accomplish these and the sex, money, and status occur as a side-effect.

Our strategies for achieving this success don’t involve tactics, lines, or hacks. Our strategies involve facing and confronting our own emotions, values and beliefs. That may sound like fluff, but in my opinion, it’s the most important path to success. Master your inner life and your outer life will soon reflect it.

Today’s man grew up in a culture where to experience and master your own emotions is considered weak, to express yourself honestly and passionately is a source of shame, where your value as a man is judged by how nice of a car you have, or how fast you are on a football field, or how hot your girlfriend is. Male sexuality is demonized and sexual intercourse itself is idolized. Strong male role models are more scarce than ever and pop culture continues to portray them in a weak and simplistic light.

But the world is changing. And so should you. There is more opportunity for happiness now than any other point in history.

This is a call to action. It’s time to take responsibility for your life and where you are in it. It’s time to assert yourself around others and stand up for what you want and feel. It’s time to take your emotions seriously and begin to think long and hard about your desires and motivations. It’s time to learn to express yourself honestly and authentically, even if it pisses some people off. It’s time to be proud of your sexuality and express it in a respectful way. Live your life on your terms. It’s not about being “the man.” It’s about being more than just a man.

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About Me

Born in Austin, Texas, I graduated from Boston University in 2007. That same year I started a pick up and dating advice website for my friends. It soon became popular. In 2008, I quit my day job to pursue it full-time as an internet business. The business eventually evolved into Postmasculine.com. Since 2009, I’ve been traveling permanently. I’ve visited 40 countries and speak four languages (two fluently). I have no permanent residence; I have no debt. I own nothing other than a laptop, a cellphone and a suitcase full of clothes.

I self-published a book on how to attract women and sold over 1,000 copies. I’ve personally helped hundreds of men all over the world — from Brussels to Chicago to Singapore to Wichita to Melbourne — conquer their fears and meet women they love. I’ve slept in the deserts of Israel and meditated under the tree where the Buddha was enlightened. I’ve skydived over New Zealand and jogged along the banks of the Danube. I’ve shared caipirinhas on the beaches of Brazil and danced til’ dawn in the clubs of Ibiza. I’ve been in love and been in lust many times over. I’ve broken hearts and had mine broken. I’m 28 years old.

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